Pls tell me how to get justice to my wife and mother-in-law?
2007-03-07 02:12:32 · 12 answers · asked by Bloody Life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. Your father in laws property will be devided into the children of his 2 wives.That is after his death.
If your mother in law files for divorce judges wil not do any injustice with the other wife's children too. Law always support the weak.
If your father in law is in Govt. Job He will loose his job by legal action so he will try to proof he has not married.Indian marriage is not a marriage with marriage certificate. So it will be hard to proof.
If he kept the first family in dark means he had fear from the first family. "He knew he is doing wrong" If your father-in-law regrates & ask excuse from the family then excuse him & live happily marrily because by excusing him you all will not increasing your blood pressure.
Excuse is given to normalise the family activity.& saving ourself from heart desease or going into depression. Just forgive & forget what he did.
Going to the court has expence. The money he has not your mother in law. He can quite his job & sit at home doing nothing & paying no money to your mother in law. Just be tactful & tactfully let him write his will & get the most of the part.
Divorce is a paper & will is a paper it is your choice what you want.
I belive by going to the court is waistage of money & continuing the anger to longer time. If he has done it can not be undone.
By divorce the bitterness of relation will increase not decrease. At the end of the day he is your wife's blood your mother in laws husband they will be effected in his pain & suffering.
I personally belive if somebody has spit me why shall I need his money or if I have spited somebody why do i need money from him.
If your mother in law is working. it is God's blessing if not fins any job according to her qualification. So economically she is independent & bussy.
Tell your wife in her fathers old age there will be 2 people to take his care.
2007-03-07 02:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, why do you want to do something which you will regret later in life. You are offering this man a proposal which means - You can have the cake & eat it too . Thats against the natural law. If you dont want legal or police hassles , then do the wise thing. Just take sabbatical One year break from this relationship on the pretext of you need time to sort out the issue. Make sure you are not in touch with him in any manner - No txt, no Phone, No miss call, No chat . No seeing him ... nothing. This will have twin benefits: 1. it will give you time to evaluate your decision as well as this relationship - whether you still want to spend rest of your life in this relationship or was the decision rash.... 2. it shall help this man to sort out the mess in his personal life. Either he will divorce/file for divorce to his wife or go back & mend his relationship with them. This shall take the legal hassle away from you & your family. If after one year, both of you still feel the same way , then go ahead. Take on the whole world... Dont worry about anything . Just do it. Ask him to leave his wife & File for divorce...and both of you can get married to each other.
2016-03-28 22:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cornelia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 2nd will not get the status of legally wedded wife since Hindu Marriage Act 1955 requires that both parties to a Hindu marriage should not have a spouse living. Despite such marriage even in presence by the priest reciting holy sacred verses, she remains a kept mistress or concubine. She cannot inherit succession.
The Ist can live separately from husband with this valid ground to claim for maintenance expenses. She can obtain divorce on this sole ground, yet get such maintenance expenses. She can prosecute him, his 2nd lady and all abettors for bigamy and get punished on proof.
2007-03-07 04:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bhaisahib its none of your business he left for a good reason as he cud not stand his family, like every male in India every woman has more and equal opportunity to stand on their feet. I'm sure your m.i.l. knew what was coming for a long time. So take care and dont worry about it and move on. One day if things may go south for you too and you may end up doing the same thing. Dont worry about it, its not your problem. You can certainly try the courts for alimony......and you are doing wonderful job by looking after them.
2007-03-10 12:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by sam_ar1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be taken care of legally. Marrying again without divorcing the first spouse is illegal. So all your mother-in-law needs to do is to file a case in a court for legal and financial redress.
2007-03-07 04:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Modest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
convince him to somehow tell ur mother-in law. The worst thing is to let your mother-in law know from someone other than her husband. Threaten him that if he doesnt tell, you will, but dont actually do it. The best thing is to not be too involved; limit yourself to just that.
2007-03-07 02:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by desigal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its ur wife and mother in law who have to take decision. if they need ur help in certain way go ahead or i wud suggest to stay away from it. am sure its bothering u because ur wife and mother in law are suffering and crying because of it. but there is nothing u can do otehr than talking to father in law with ur wife and mother in law.
2007-03-07 02:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by slv 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay out of it. It's none of your business. That's between him and everyone involved in his Big Love lifestyle.
2007-03-07 02:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
exactly srikanth! i think the others are right. Stay out of it. If anyone ask you something just say he is actualy nothing to do with you.
2007-03-07 06:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by asin k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LET ENJOY THE OLD MAN AND MAINTAIN DISTANCE FROM HIM.
2007-03-10 15:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋