if my husband wants to suck milk out of me when we have a baby soon is it wrong or a turn on ?

Question

iam due in july

omg im here to help is the most slitty poa here she is stanky as hell and wonders y men dont want her its because you snmell like dead fich clean it and youll be ok now piss off you dirt skanj shhhh

Answer 1

it's a fetish.

Answer 2

Hi this is a very interesting question, i believe that its ok for hubby to drink milk. I myself would have loved to when my daughter was born. It depends on whether its for sexual reasons or for family bonding. as a sexual turn on i can see that it would be great fun, if however father and baby are feeding together, then this is great as it will cement the family bond. It would however change the dynamics of your relationship as both your child and your man would be dependent on you (in your child's eyes this would make you the strongest member of the family). maybe you should keep fathers breast feeding, for when baby is asleep. good luck with the birth

Answer 3

Between two consenting adults - it is up to you. It is somewhat of a 'fetish' but who am I to judge? Here is information on the subject.

Varieties of erotic lactation

Lactation games: "Mainstream erotic lactation". Any kind of sexual activity which includes the woman's milk. Very widespread in the time after child birth because many woman experience a let-down reflex while sexually aroused.[5]
Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR): Suckling from the female breast as an expression of close intimacy and mutual tenderness. The relationship of both partners is based on equality and mutuality. Adult Nursing Relationships depend on a stable and long term relationship of the couple, otherwise it is nearly impossible to maintain a steady milk flow. On the other hand it is frequently reported that breastfeeding has a strong stabilizing effect on the partnership.[6] The breastfeeding woman may experience orgasms or a pleasurable let-down reflex, but that need not be necessarily so, as the most significant reason to enter into an ANR is the intense bonding and intimacy experienced (and frequently reported) by nursing couples.
Pumping: Many women experience sensual pleasure from pumping milk from their breasts with a milk pump or expressing milk manually, either with or without a partner. In addition to the sensual pleasure they report feeling more feminine while producing milk. Therefore some women continue with lactation after weaning a baby for emotional or sensual reasons.
There exist also three BDSM varieties of erotic lactation:
Infantilism: The male partner assumes the role of a baby (being breastfed by the mother) in sexual role play. Breastfeeding might play a secondary role in this type of relationship, and being pampered by "mommy", wearing diapers or a hidden incestuous character can predominate in this kind of relationship.
Breastfeeding as a reward (or surrogate pleasure): Breastfeeding of the submissive partner can serve as a reward for his/her submission.
Milking: Milking of the submissive woman, or commanding her to give milk for her dominant partner.
Excessive Breastfeeding of a Child: In order to give a comprehensive overview it should be mentioned that "excessive breastfeeding" for reasons of sensual pleasure in the mother might occur. This is not a topic of this article and it is highly unclear whether a woman can harm her child directly by excessive breastfeeding.[7]

[edit] Lactation, re-lactation and induced lactation
Erotic Lactation between partners or an Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR) may develop from natural breastfeeding of a baby. During the lactation period the male partner starts to suckle on the female breast, and continues after the baby is weaned off. Milk production is continually stimulated and the milk flow continues.

However, milk production can be "artificially" and intentionally induced in the absence of any pregnancy in the woman. This is called Induced lactation, while a woman who has lactated before and re-starts is said to relactate. This can be done by regularly sucking on the nipples (several times a day), massaging/squeezing the female breasts or with additional help from temporary use of milk-inducing drugs, such as the Dopamine antagonist Domperidone [8] [9]. In principle – with considerable patience and perseverance – it is possible to induce lactation by sucking on the nipples alone.

Answer 4

For a lot of men that is a turn on. My brother-in-law did after his kids were born. He liked the taste, my sister-in-law didn't mind. But she didn't breast feed. I don't see anything wrong with it. Let him try it, he might not even like it. Save some for the baby.

Answer 5

totally depends on if you plain om breast feeding or not!! and if not and you do carry through with it than tread carefully because a adults mouth has a million more germs than a infants and you could very well get a infection in your milk ducts which by the way is very very very painful to say the very least, good luck

Answer 6

Nothing wrong with it,you will get some pleasure from it too,just don't let him take the babies share.
If you become stimulated from it ,the baby will feel it to and might even feed better as well.

Answer 7

I think if HE suggested it, then its a turn on for him. Maybe you could let him try it and see if he actually likes it. This reminds me of FRIENDS when Ross had to see if the milk was warm and didnt want to, and then Joey jusr drank it! It was kinda funny.

Answer 8

Eww! I don't actually think there is anything wrong with it if it is your thing but i wouldn't let my BF do it to me (or anyone else LOL!) after I had just had a baby.

Answer 9

It could be a turn on for you, but you would think that it would be a turn off for him. Have you ever tasted breastmilk? It's nasty, and besides that is for the baby not him!

Answer 10

depends how you view it. does your wife get turned on by it? i think that its very wierd. . . .but hey, what ever floats your boat. besides your wifeys milk is for the baby.. dont wannna suck her dry and leave none for the baby. ... .. stick to the cow.

Answer 11

Obviously it's a turn-on as he's turned on by the idea, duh!

I don't see how it can be wrong. I think it's quite wierd and wouldn't myself but whatever floats your boats.