I thought my cousins and I have close relationship after the 1 week vacation spent together. I guess we don't have a close relationship. When I took the driving test and failed, I emailed all my cousins to let them know. then one of them called my mom and my mom told me that i shouldn't email everyone. I'm guessing that my cousin think I am a burdersome to their lives. I only told them because I thought my cousins were friends. I guess my cousins didn't see me as a friend. Anyone have an idea on how come my cousin told my mom about please do not email your cousins anymore about anything? I only wanted sympathy from them but they didn't even reply. She said "if you go to the bathroom, you shouldn't email them about it." like okay, I know I shouldn't email them about those small events but I emailed them about big events like driving test, school test, and other stuff. Why are my cousins like that?
2007-03-07 02:10:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thats is really sad to me :( There goes the theory that blood is thicker then water..I am sorry you did not pass your driving test..but lots of people dont pass it the first time so I am sure with a little more study and preparation you will pass it the next time!
As for the cousins..they sound immature. They obviously are not the deep thinking reflective type like you are so chalk it up to you are just a higher thinker and care about people and like to have interapersonal relationships and they dont. They are young and immature...with time they may grow close to you....but I wouldnt bother emailing them until they apologize to you. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-07 02:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my family, us cousins are very close. However, that doesn't mean we are best friends or that we don't piss each other off. Keep these two phrases in mind: 1. Blood is thicker than water. Your cousins will be there for you in the most crucial times. 2. You can pick your friends but you can't pick your family. Find a best friend to share your ups and downs with.
2007-03-07 10:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by chelelab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're assuming things. Your mom told you not to e-mail your cousins. I highly doubt that your cousin would call your mom to tell her to tell you to stop e-mailing them. I think that maybe your mom does not like you telling other people your personal business. Don't assume anything. Talk to your cousin before jumping to conclusions.
2007-03-07 10:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you do to them?
Ask yourself this question and you will find the answer grasshopper
2007-03-07 10:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by dirtmojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋