My friends are all against me now... I cant keep a secret, and they say I am always trying to get attention. Since I am wearing a whole lot of make-up today, my friends are gonna be like,"You're just asking for attention!" That is SO not true, they just dont let me do what I want! I cant do anything w/o them saying that!!! I cry ALL the time, cuz 7th grade has been the hardest year so far... we just moved and I hate this school!!! How do I become more queit???
2007-03-07 02:10:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
By being quiet.
Just keep quiet, don't pry into other's conversations, and don't tell anyone's secrets!
If someone even says they have a secret to tell you, tell them you don't want to hear it.
2007-03-07 02:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard, 'cause we ALL have opinions and want to share them with the world. But the world is better off without knowing what we think sometimes.
In my opinion, your friends are jelous of you. Just be yourself, but always be respectful and nice to others (not only your friends). If your friends dont like the way you are then that's their problem.
But if you know you open your mouth a little too much, then you can fix that. Just keep your mouth closed unless you are being asked something. If you feel you have to share your opinion, then just say it in your head, to yourself, without anyone hearing you. That way it'll get out of your system! :)
There's this saying in spanish: "En boca cerrada no entran moscas", which means "No flies go into a closed mouth".
2007-03-07 10:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just keep being yourself....people should like you for who you are! Do not change for anyone. Your true friends will stick by you! If those people are making fun of you and makin you feel bad about yourself, then they're really not your friends at all! You dont need them...go make dif friends that will respect you and you can just be yourself around! Lifes too short...have fun with it, live with no regrets!
2007-03-07 10:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just be yourself. One thing I learned in my 48 years of life is simply being yourself. Now the part about you can't keep a secret, your friends will end up not telling you anything if they feel they can't tell you in confidence. That I would work on but the part about you being yourself you are who you are.
2007-03-07 10:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by hokiedokie24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wearing so much makeup for starters. Read some books? Learn to enjoy solitude? This is the catty part of your life and won't end until you are out of high school so get used to it.
2007-03-07 10:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say sorry to all of them. i know its hard first but say how u truly feel!!! they will have to listen, true friends understand. and i move every 2 years, its really hard to make good friends so often. its a hard life, but soon, itll all be alright. im in 8th grade. yah, everyone in my class puts on make up, but i really hate it when people tell my secrets. dont do that!!!
2007-03-07 10:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEED NEW FRIENDS
2007-03-07 10:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by sonya h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't open your mouth
2007-03-07 10:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by *<dEzI>* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋