We have only been to topless bars together only four times. But now she is requesting that we go again because she had fun. One thing I noticed is that the dancers gravitated to her more than me when we went. I can tell that she enjoyed the attention and one very hot dancer gave her a lap dance and kissed her on the lips. So ladies, given the above noted info, is it possible that my wife is bi or is just a female bonding thing going on? Keep in mind, my wife never showed any signs of bi-ness prior to her joining me at the topless bar.
2007-03-07 02:08:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me add by saying that I got very excited when the dancer got on my wife and kissed her on the lips. Yes, I do enjoy it and will take my wife this Saturday night. I am just curious if anyone thinks she is bi or leaning bi and if I am treading in dangerous waters?
2007-03-07 02:15:59 · update #1
She was probably having a good time.
2007-03-07 02:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Chief BaggageSmasher 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I also go to strip bars. Keep in mind that the dancers are there to make money, not because it is some kind of turn on for them. You will notice that the dancers always gravitate toward women because it earns them more tips from the guys "watching the show". As far as whether or not shes bi.... thats something you need to ask her, she may just just enjoy the attention she gets, she may enjoy the public displays of affection, she may enjoy the fact that you get turned on, or she may be curious about a bi experience. The main thing is open and honest communication
2007-03-07 02:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Silly guy she is doing that for you and to be next to you. She is giving you something she thinks you enjoy that she may very well enjoy. I don't think she is bi and the topless dancers prolly more than ever to get all over a woman then sit there and do it to a man. Part of the act b/c you are in a show. Women know roles and we play them well. Just be grateful your chick not only will do this with you but won't show her butt and actually be laid back enough to have a good time. Your woman is giving you entertainment and giving the both of you something to get steamy to later.
2007-03-07 02:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by BettieRulz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine's wife is like that and she is not bi at all. She has gotten to know several of the dancers and has become friends with them. She likes to go with her man and buy him lap dances. It's a way of bonding for them and I think she is happier being there with her man than being at home while her hubby is out alone with the guys. My wife has also been with me a couple of times. I think these women are just open and comfortable with their sexuality and their men. Enjoy.
2007-03-07 02:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just be caught up in the moment... I dont think she is bi. Many women can appreciate a nice body whether its male or female, something guys cant relate to. My wife loved places loves places like that because of the attention she gets when she walks in with me.
2007-03-07 02:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Shonuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't show signs of bi-ness. Maybe she is just open with her sexuality and isn't as tight about it as you are. She's not worried about trying to prove that she is not gay because she is in touch with herself. Why are you taking your wife to topless bars anyway if you are worried about whether she is bi-sexual or not? It's like you are implying that you want her to be involved in that lifestyle. Maybe she is just doing it because she wants you to have a good time. If you aren't trying to open her up to the bi-lifestyle and it is just all in fun, would you be open to going to a club with nude or semi-nude men as the entertainment. I'm sure that she would enjoy doing that with you. Try it out if it's just entertainment that you are after.
2007-03-07 02:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just having fun! You should feel lucky, not threatened, because there are many men who wish their wives would go. I know of some women that said the dancers give the women lap dances as well, and it drives the men crazy! Just have fun!
2007-03-07 02:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well would you like it if your wife brought home a girl and you had a three some or do u like it just the two of you it all depends on that, if u would want her to bring another girl home then keep taking her but if not dont bring her its all up to u
2007-03-07 02:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she is-[keep in mind some of these posters would say otherwise, she could go down on another female and they'd still say no she isn't] but you don't actually care about things being dangerous you have no decernment to begin with- you get turned by depraved acts--then most of you on here wonder why your relationships end. -I'll have to laugh when i see you on here 6 months from now crying your heart out. Why don't you have a bit of respect for yourself, your wife and your marraige and not go to topless bars??
2007-03-07 02:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She might be bi. I would just go with the flow and join her at the club. You never know, something may come out of it and you may end up in a threesome. Which doesn't sound too bad. LOL
2007-03-07 02:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If SHE is asking about going back, then SHE liked it. If she were going for YOU, then she'd wait for YOU to ask to go, and then go with you.
SHE liked it and wants to go back for more.
My thoughts are that she has a great time with these other women, and DOES have bi-tendencies, but won't take them beyond the topless bar.
It's her little way of living out her 'fantasies'.
2007-03-09 06:56:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋