recently i've been looking at girls and trying to date girls..i dont know why i'm not into boys anymore and i found it hard because i cant date any girl where i live(not much lesbian here)
I do like this girl who got the same boss with me but work in different place and i think she like me by looking at me and try to tallk all the time whenever i go there..she looks dykey..i dont know what to do.
I like to try out but cant get anywhere..honestly i'm stuck in the middle cant get a girlfriend and dont want a boyfriend..i'm really confused..
Pls help
2007-03-07 02:06:43 · 10 answers · asked by kimmy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hey i'm sorry for using the word dykey...
2007-03-07 12:37:37 · update #1
are you sure that you want to be a lesbian? and why would you
want to be one? sound like to me that you dont have your heart, s
oul, body, and mind, headed into the same direction? fear is som
ething that we all feel, it may and maynot be a good source to lea
d and guide our path? make very sure that a lesbian lifestyle is tru
ly what you want to get into? this is not a step to make, unless yo
u check out every avenue that you will face?
2007-03-07 02:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!! Instant lesbian, just add water! Honey, you are not going to get a girl EVER with that attitude. If you really like this girl go talk to her, maybe ask her out for some coffee, or lunch, or maybe even dinner. That way you can get to know her, and find out if you have things in common and all that good stuff. Oh.. and if you are planning on ever "getting any", you might have to refrain from calling her "dykey", just advise for the future. I know you are probably new at this, but lesbians don't ususally enjoy being called dykes, its a very derrogatory term. Good luck with your lady friend.
2007-03-07 02:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're not a lesbian but just wondering if that's the life you'd like to try. I have a friend who is and has always known about her desires to be with women. If you really want to try it out, you'll eventually have the chance. It never interfered with our friendship but I do recall the time when she told me she loved me . She is happily with someone now but did at one time go out with men. I know her whole life story and men always hurt her so bad that if I were her, I wouldn't want a man either. That's not saying I'm a lesbian. That's more of a trust issue. Maybe try being alone for awhile and learn from your higher self what you really want. Then just go for it.
2007-03-07 02:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by meganzopf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not sure how you can just turn into being a lesbian but ok. If you just "turned" into a lesbian, how do you know there are no lesbians where you live? If you have feelings for a girl, or think you do, try talking to her. I am not sure how old you are, but you will have to figure out what you want. Sex or a relationship? Good Luck.
2007-03-07 02:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are a lesbian. You just looking for someone to love or love you. Start a proper family nucleus. Good Husband , yourself and Children.
2007-03-07 04:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no longer truly - i have continuously beloved both yet the following is only this kind of smorgasbord (i wish it turns you on even as i exploit massive words like that). i do not care what number others you adore - see you later as you adore me lengthy time period. ?
2016-12-05 09:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in bed with a woman it you like (not just anyone) and if you feel like having sexual fun have it, and if you really, really enjoy it then you will know
2007-03-10 07:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you move somewhere where you will be accepted? If you're going to be a lesbian, don't you want to be comfortable enough to do so?
2007-03-07 04:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get close to her, and rub yourself up against her. And act like it was an accident. Or go up to her comment about her clothes, and touch her in a few places ,and see what happens. If she has a neclace on, go up to and ask if you could see it. Then slowly look in her eyes as you move you hand down to her breast. Or if she has a ring ,take her hand, and look at it. Then as you are lowering it. move your hand over her private. and let her know you like what you feel. Or go up to her and give her a hug. And ask her to go out for something with you.and keep rubbing yourself against her.
2007-03-07 02:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
hit me up sometime hun d10_m10@yahoo.com
2007-03-07 06:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋