I have a friend that I think is being clueless (it's not me) about this guy she's been messing around with. They've been friends w/benefits for almost a year now. However, he puts fourth very little effort to spend any time with him. They talk briefly every other day but haven't seen each other in a couple of months. They live within 15 miles from each other.
He's often unavailable when she calls & calls her back, other times he calls her when he appears to only be bored & has nothing else to do. People keep saying how they see him out with another woman/or women and whenever they do try to make plans he's a no show. I tell her that if he had any real feelings for her he would make time for her, inspite of all the BS he tells her over the phone. She hangs on to the fact that he still calls her & returns her calls. I told her maybe he just likes you as a friend. What is some advice I should give to her other than he's a jerk?
2007-03-07
02:00:53
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