Turn Around for South Bound Teen?

Question

My 17 year old daughter, we live in Planto. Is committing future suicide, can you suggest any counceling, positive help?

A little of what she does

Failing

Staying out late ( I know you will say I should keep her in, but short of a lock and key to leg, she is sneaky)

Started smoking

Having sex, I think judging by all the Male hispanics who call the house

She dresses with lots of skin showing

She hates her parents

She has one more year in High School, at this rate she will be working a McDonalds for the rest of her life.

I wish she could have a realality check; my life in 10 years, or a Dr. Phil.

Have any of you turned around a south bound teen, this one is EXTREEMLY STRONG WILLED AND UNFLAPPABLE IN HER DIRECTION.

Thank You, you may make a difference.

Answer 1

The first thing you need to do is keep all those hispanics away, they are never up to any good. A guy I know got hit in the head with a tomahawk trying to get his daughter away from some hispanics, so do it carefully.

I think you should get her a job at McDonalds part time, after school and such, think of a punishment for not doing it. It will teach her some responsibility, and give her a good vision of her future.

Answer 2

I understand your concern but and I don't know your relationship with your daughter but the best thing you can do is be there for her. Talk to her. You cannot force anything on her. At 17 she will make up her own mind whether you want her to or not. Make sure she's knows all the necessities about disease and pregnancy. If you attempt to stop her from seeing the boys or men no matter what race they are she will more than likely run to them and move in. So keep talking to her and be considerate of her feelings. If she doesn't want to talk to you leave her notes and cards and happy things to remind her you love her. Do not judge. I did all those things (except for the hispanics) and I am 36 married with kids. Just because it looks one way doesn't mean that will happen. My parents were open and non judgemental and always there for me. That is the best you can do for your children.

Answer 3

She sounds like a normal teen that just needs some positive inspiration.
I see college graduates working at McDonalds, no big deal on that one.
I think you should give her allowances for good grades, and pay her to help you around the house.
As far as boyfriends calling, at least she is popular and she will have to live and learn, just buy her condoms or order free condoms over the internet....http://www.freecondoms.com
Let her be a teen and make her own mistakes, encourage
her to get better grades and to think positive.
U can help, play soothin music at home and talk nice to her.

Answer 4

First of, Mexicans, or at least the ones I know and I know about 20 (there's WAY too many illegals here !! x_x ) like it easy.
So chase them off . They are just looking for one thing and from the way you described how your daughter dresses, she gives it to them freely.
My husband has a half-sister who was the EXACT same way...even going out on keggers, going to bars, looking up old men on the internet and telling them where she lived so they could come and F u c k her, etc.
John's step-mom sent her to boot camp and it has made ALL of the difference.
They provide excellent education up there and she'll learn RESPECT.
It's harsh but it works.

Answer 5

GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR DAUGHTER

YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS