i live away from my friends and family due to work,its my birthday on the weekend and ive asked my friends to come up and celebrate with me as i dont know anyone here,but have said they cant come up due to one thing or another,my family cant come up either,im thinking of going down to see everyone as it might be easier but im thinking should i really make the effort as it seems my friends cant,i think il be spending my birthday on my own and i dont mind just dissapointed in my friends and family,i know they're not planning anything as they've never bothered before,should i just go see everyone back at home anyway?
2007-03-07 01:10:20 · 9 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Or make a break from them all......You'll be cutting off your nose to spite your face if you spend it alone and you really want to be with them,,,,but it's how you really feel about the deal that counts...I think they are being a little rude..but that's just my opinion.
2007-03-07 01:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely. It sounds like you're resenting them all for being away from you and having a seperate life ( which is understandable). But if it were me I'd go and see them all. Once you're down there you'll forget all about it, whereas if you stay at home on your own on your birthday you'll just going to keep turning it over in your head and blow it completely out of proportion.
Go and have fun and if they carry on being weird with you say something. What can make perfect sense to you or be very hurtful, someone else may have no idea completely.
Happy Birthday!
2007-03-07 09:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy i know just what you mean. my family are like that as well. makes you feel out of sight out of mind doesn't it. well i guess it,s up to you , i am sure if you visit them they will be really pleased to see you, so go home maybe they are just busy and if you are there they may even find time to go for a meal or a drink with you.so go home enjoy your birthday and as the saying goes don't cut of your nose too spite your face.oh and by the way HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR NEXT WEEK
2007-03-07 09:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by fushia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn that the whole world doesn't revolve around you. It's a big ask to get people to travel for your birthday, especially if it's long distance. Maybe you should consider looking for a new job closer to home.
2007-03-07 09:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or you could make your birthday fantastic and celebrate alone? You could have the whole day to yourself and do anything you want without worrying about others.
But I do think your friends and relatives are being very mean, if I can add my opinion.
2007-03-07 09:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Divine ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, even though you won't get the old birthday party you dream off..your friends and family are all you got
my family never celebrated bd/s or much of anythiong but weddings anniversaries and some funnerals..
my wife and i don't either and never have
people can be mean and i guess i just gave up..i just pout ..lol
2007-03-07 09:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they care. They just have stuff that is going on. Don't be like that, cheer up. Get up and go down there and have a good time.
2007-03-07 09:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go and see them they will be pleased to see you dont, feel sorry for yourself they live a long way. if they never bover dont, bover with them, and get out and make new friends you will feel happier.
2007-03-07 09:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by denny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw they dont care dont even go there this weekend sod them all
2007-03-07 09:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋