been seperated (taking a break) from their spouse and gotten back together? The wife and I are going through a little rough patch and she has been gone for about a week. When we talk it always seems to turn into a fight. Everyone keeps saying things will work out and it just takes time but the time is the hardest part. Just seeing if there could be a light at the end of the tunnel or if it is more then likely done.
2007-03-07 00:45:54 · 12 answers · asked by blingblinger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try counseling....things won't get better just by taking a break...if you ignore problems, they don't just go away....good luck
2007-03-07 00:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know from experience that sometimes all a couple needs is a little break from one another to get on track again. Give her the time she needs. When a couple is together every day like you guys, there's not enough time to start missing each other again. If this is the first time you and your wife have done this, then I would agree with everyone else and say that you will probably get back together. But, it really depends on why you were fighting to begin with. What was it about? Just give her the time she needs and whatever you do, don't rush her! Trust me on this one!
2007-03-07 08:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by kathy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once people get into talking negative and finger pointing its hard to break without a mediator. First I have this rule, whatever comes out of your mouth, think first, count to ten, is whatever I am going to say do the other person any good. Is what I am going to say anyway damaging? Then shush up. Tell her to try it as well. You will be surprised. Its a control issue right now. Who is right and who is wrong. Good luck. Dont give up.
2007-03-07 08:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For solving your problem, you have to analyze where the fault is. Remove the fault if you can otherwise, talk your spouse into it and tell her your shortcomings. Also accommodate her thinking even if you don't like certain things in them. this is give and take, you give today, you will get tomorrow, but its better that you do good and never expect much in return. Good luck to you.
2007-03-07 08:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by Memon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a break until you both calm down. Then when both have done this try and resolve your differences if thinking of re-uniting , otherwise the same problems will persist.
2007-03-07 08:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by holly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a 50/50 chance. You should use this time to breathe, and if no kids are involved then you both should not be talking during this time.
2007-03-07 08:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by SuzyQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is hard work and if you believe in your wedding vows then you have to put in the time needed to straighten things out....
2007-03-07 08:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it you want it to work out I am sure it will. Just give it some time and it will come around.
2007-03-07 08:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear it but you just ask her what she wants and go from there it sounds like it could be done but just ask her give her space and see what happends and good luck
2007-03-07 09:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i left my husband for a week and yes i came back and things are alot better then before.
2007-03-07 08:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋