i don't know why but i get really jealous my guy watches porn. i know it's normal and i watch it too but i can't help but compare myself to these girls, am i being crazy or are there other girls who can relate? we have a great relationship and sometimes i don't care but other times i do, it just depends on my mood. any suggestions would be appreciated.
2007-03-07 00:29:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think if he is not playing with you because he is watching porn, it can be a problem and I say get rid of it. BUT, if it makes him hotter for you, then I wouldn't worry. We watch together and it ends up being fun for us. I think if he isn't replacing you with the porn, then you should be okay, but if he is, then you guys may need to talk about getting rid of it.
2007-03-07 01:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by babygyrl_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 18 years and my husband and I get along great,But I do get jealous and I know that the reason most of the time is : the way i feel about myself.
Example: If i am a little overweight at the time, I find myself being jealous alot!
When my self esteem is low I am very sensitive.
2007-03-07 08:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I used to watch it together. It was an agreement. It did start bothering me and we talked about it and came to the conclusion that pornography is not a normal part of a healthy relationship and we threw it all out of the house! We haven't had issues with each other ever since about, well, my body and yes, my issues with it. He respected me more than a stupid porno! Now we spice things up ourselves and are much more healthy in the bedroom and overall in our relationship. If your guy negates your feelings about and/or keeps watching it after you have voiced your concerns, then he simply does not respect you as a person and needs to find a girl from one of his videos and you need to find a man who will respect you for you, and yes, your moods too!
2007-03-07 09:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by tzrfam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think watching porn is alright I guess. I wouldn't be jealous though. Don't let it get out of hand, because it could end up being a sickness.
2007-03-07 08:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wasn't jealous at first when my man was doing it. then it started to get out of control. eveyday, everynight, on the computer etc. etc. we now have an agreement that if he wasnts to do it, it's to be when i'm not around. i also don't feel like i should compete with the chick on the tv. he should respect your insecurities.
2007-03-07 09:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by ahh_maine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just silly. She is a actress, you are there with him because he loves you. You really need to grow up a little and stop making problems where there is none...
2007-03-07 08:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be bothered at all because you are the one he loves.. You are the one who he wants to do the deed with anyway.. maybe he's just need some boost or tips and tricks or whatever..
2007-03-07 09:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by carol 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be jealous??
Most of them have had awful lives
2007-03-07 08:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by *G* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, stop being so moody.
2007-03-07 09:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I relate to this also..........Not much we can do about.
2007-03-07 08:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋