He HAD A BABY AND KEPT IT SECRET BUT i LOVE HIM SO MUCH i CANT LEAVE HIM
2007-03-06 23:56:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well.....what is the problem then? You love a slimeball who cheats on you. You like to share your man with other women. You want to be with a man who doesn't love or respect you. You like the possibility of getting diseases. You like the fact that he has babies with other women and comes back to you just for sex. Wow, sounds like a good deal to me. What woman wouldn't want that?
2007-03-07 00:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know I have been through this...I have two kids with a guy that I was with for 7 years. He cheated on me many times and now has 2 other kids beside mine, which were the result of cheating on me. I got the strength to leave him, after my etseem was beat down I found the strength to build myself back up and realize I do not desreve that. The crazy thing is most people cannot find that strength after years of going through this but as people told me I did it to myself by taking him back and that is what you are doing. I cany believe you arent sick of it after 10 years. You need some counseling-seriously otherwise dont ask for advice if you arent going to take it-you know you should leave him but I understand that it is hard but its about time to wake up!!!!otherwise deal with and dont complain.
2007-03-07 00:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by Yellowtulips 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not going to leave him no matter what, then I guess ignore it. Let him do whatever he wants and you can continue to live in your little dream world of having a loving and balanced relationship.
One thing you need to do though is make sure you use condoms when you have sex with him. Lord knows how many STD's he's coming into contact with when he's sleeping around. If you won't leave, at least try to make it a bit safer for you.
2007-03-07 00:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to stay with a man that thinks so little of you that he had a baby with another woman and didn't tell you!? He obviously doesn't love you or even care about you. You need to face some hard facts and move on!
2007-03-07 00:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by kelloggs322 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You like badboys and have a low self esteem, move on and try to have some respect for yourself. You probably think this is how most men are but we are not you can find a good one they are out there. The problem is your attracted to the wrong type of guy.
2007-03-07 00:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his ***. h e is no good. loving someone is not a reason to hang around someone who does not deserve your love or your time or loyalty. so what u love him. find someone else and love them. he is a jerk. he is untrustworthy. not only did he cheat on you, he got someone pregnant? meaning he is so selfish to the point that he had unprotected sex. can you imagine if the lady was hiv positive or had aids, he would have given you the disease. and also if she got pregnant, he most likely slept with her more than once and has probably slept with other womenand you just dont know about it yet. dump his ***. b/4 u find about all his other atrocities or b4 he hurts u again.
2007-03-07 00:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may say you still love him but can you really trust him? You are better off without him, do you not deserve someone who treats you with enough respect to not have a child with another woman!!!
You will find someone else and your cheating husband will be sorry that he lost you.
2007-03-07 00:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by FingerNails 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answer you own question, you love him so much that you can't leave him.. So stay with him and ignore his affairs, I'm in a similar situation, my husband cheats on me, but the only reason I stay is because we have two boys together and a daugther that by the way he had while married to me and now calls me mommy because he had to take her from her worthless mother, and I stay for them and secondly I stay because I have no education and would be really hard to start with nothing... This kids love their daddy so much but need me to take care of them.. and so that is my story, that is why I stay, but you say you love him so there is only one way for you stay and ignore. good luck.
2007-03-07 00:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you see why he cheats on you....
Your love for him...it takes more then love to deal with a person
like this...U..have to do something..I bet he makes your own decisions...doesn't he. He knows what strings to pull and buttons to push.
You MUST...leave....or he will hurt you until you will never be able to love again. Get away from him.
2007-03-07 01:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by Bobbie4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
s**t on me once shame on u. s**t on me twice shame on me. love is not one sided. that is obsession. u deserve a true love where u r just as important as the other person. if u are truly having trouble leaving this person seek some counseling. talking to a professional will help u realize how important u r and help raise your very low self esteem. good luck to u
2007-03-07 00:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by a very happily married woman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋