i used to think that it was my friends that never understood me but now i have realised that the problem is with me. i have the best lot of friends for the first time and feel i am losing them as it had been the case a number of times. i hate myself for this. how can i change this habit. someone suggested don't think so much about it, just go with the flow. but i can't help it.
i really want some help. my friends are great and losing them is my greatest fear.
2007-03-06 23:56:15 · 4 answers · asked by sana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be more patience/sometimes things is not the way we want them to be..so try to understand that and that every1 is diff.from every1...there will never b a perfect friend without something that u might not like about them..but once again(they think the same about u) nobody is the same. we all have diff. personalities we just gotta understand and respect that..this way ull c things diff.and have less issue w.them. be more patience girl..more patience.
2007-03-07 00:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How good of friends are they? If they are really good, tell them that you tend to push people away, but that you really care about them and want to keep them as friends. Ask them to help you when they are agitated with you so that you can get some insight on what you are doing to offend them.
Most of all you need to enjoy yourself and make sure they are enjoying you. Try not to get angry and try to not always be the center of attention. Blend in with them and show geniune concern for them.
"It is better to keep your mouth shut and appear to be a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt"
Holding your tongue may seem weak to you, but it will help you to not make mistakes of offending.
2007-03-07 08:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by ggirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry hun so do I
2007-03-07 07:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by J'adore Ratatouille 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slef conciousness maybe
2007-03-07 07:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Carly-Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋