I just had a friend call me and tell me my husband of 2 years was seen on yahoo personells?

Question

Hi activity was with in a week, on that site it said. The picture that was on that site was a year after we met it was taken, when we were engaged. He denies that he was on that site. I showed him the acitivity with in that week he says its cause someone contacted him so it shows that it was active when that cantact came to him. which i know is not true. he keeps telling me im crazy and dont know what Im talking about and to get proof. but I have proof the pic and the activity with an week. but continues to be very mean and degrading to me out of defense. what other proof do I need. to get him to admit it. how can I go on with out him admitting it. how do you work this out if he wont admit it. the evidence is right there, and he says he didnt do it. I say the pic why did you put a site on after we got engaged. he cant deny that but he just shakes his head says I dont know why and yells at me and runs away. what do I do from this point on.Its one thing if he did do it and admit it but

Answer 1

Why do u need him to admit it.. ???? the proof is there, he doesnt need to admit it.. and in away he did admit it by saying "he doesnt know why".. So he admits the site is his, and ive neverrrrrrrrrrr seen a site that logged it as current activity just because someone emailed him... usually sites will say.. "last updated" , "last login" etc.. and whether he was on the site last week or not is only part of the problem, he obviously was active in the site after u and him were engaged, so right there shows a lack of character.. although u werent married yet , u were promised to each other to be married, and thats just as bad.. he was showing signs of not being able to be faithful even that early on, or he wouldnt of felt the need to be on a site like that at all..

If he has nothing to hide, tell him to show u the mailbox for that site..since he's trying to say its cause someone msged him, wheres the msg? its only a week old.. so where did it go? Depending on the kind of site it is, it either will have its own private mail box, or it would be directly sent to his email..

Hun, check the history on your computer, and if its not set up to do so, set up the history to save for a month.. then drop the subject act as if u believe him, let him do his thing, and after about a week, check the history it will show all sites that he's been to in the last week.. , but if the history is already to save for awhile, then if he was on that site in the last week, it will be on the history of ur computer u just need to find it..and if he is doing this, u may just find out alot more in that history then just this..

Good luck, and dont let him getting pissy bother u, give him the cold shoulder, he's going to defend himself, he's going to deny in hopes eventually u'll just drop it.. etc..

Men are horrible at covering their tracks..he'll leave a trail behind.. so start looking for that trail..

Answer 2

He's caught. Not only caught but his conduct towards you is a defense mechanisim that isn't working because you have him dead to rights. So what do you do when confronted with irrefutable proof? Why...deny it of course! Keep denying. Tell your wife she's crazy. Get angry and deny some more. You madam...have a real issue here at hand. I think you'll find this is just a scratch on the surface. Not only is he lying to you but he is lying to any other woman out there who innocently hooks up with him because shes under the assumption he's single. You have married a snake. Pure and simple. Who knows who else he's been screwing unbeknownst to you and then coming into your bed to do the same. The first thing I'd do is get checked out for any STDs....just to be safe. Then how you address him and this issue is entirely up to you. I offer no advice for that. Good luck.

Answer 3

All he can do is sputter and run away. He'll never admit it.

Get a lawyer and get a divorce. I normally would suggest some marriage counseling, but I don't think your husband would benefit from it. And another thing, he's trying to put you down and make you believe that you are stupid and don't know anything. That's not a quality I would want in a husband.

I bet if you check his email, he's probably had a lot of activity on yahoo personals. You could always set up a yahoo personals dummy profile with a picture of a hot girl and contact him to see what he does. Its a good way to catch him cheating and trying to set up meetings with other women. It'd also provide undeniable proof in your divorce proceedings.

Answer 4

What can you do?
What are your options? Let's see:
A) You follow him everywhere and check his pockets everyday,
B) You get a Private Eye to check up on him,
C) You get online and do the same,
D) All of the above,
E) You confront him and ask him what is lacking between you two for him to be out hunting,
F) You look inside of you and find out what has led to this,
G) You have so much sex with him to make sure he doesn't even think about even sideways glancing at another girl,
H) Most likely in that order from E to G.
I) You think about this 24/7 until it eats into you so deep you go crazy(er),
J) You leave him because you can't really love a person you don't trust, or
K) He leaves you for same reason as J.
And then we have the worse-case scenarios:
L) You find him with a lover and shoot her, blame him, he goes to a prison with Morgan Freeman, and crawls through poo to escape and go to Mexico! (I did say worse-case!)
M) Watch "The Sentinal", "The Ladies Man", or "Closer" for others.


But whatever you do, don't get mad, even, nor square. Let go and be free...

Answer 5

He's not going to admit it - if you are going to stay in the marriage let it go for now, lay low, he'll mess up again - when he does make sure you have proper proof and confront him. If you are 100% positive that something is going on then get out. It's one thing when a spouse admits wrong doing and asks forgiveness, it's another thing to be married to a liar.

Answer 6

child forget trying to get him to "admit" anything men NEVER admit...you have the proof..he's a cheating dogg! pack your bags and move out for a couple of weeks to show him you ain't no fool and stop trying to play you like a piano! have NO contact with him for about two weeks and he will come running to you ready to confess everything then you'll have right where you want him! he's your husband and i know you love him but at the same time you got to stick up for yourself. ask yourself if you can continue to live with him if you can well my little plan shoud work if you can't well then move out for good.hopefully there are no kids involed.....good luck!

Answer 7

Ask him for his yahoo password, get into his personals account and delete it. Show him his site if he denies having one. Check other dating sites also, he probably has more than one. I've been through this before.
I simply told my other half that if the account were not deleted that he could leave and that I never wanted to see him again.
Good Luck.

Answer 8

Get one of those key board recorder programs and track what he does. Of course, if he is doing this at work, you don't be able to. How 'bout you get an account so you can interact with him without him knowing it? I'm sure most will not agree with this, but it's the sneaky way and it's what I would do so he CAN'T deny it.

Answer 9

The best way to get even is for you to shave your p u s s y and then put your picture on the internet with another man or woman eating you out.

Answer 10

It wouldn't say active in the last week if he wasn't on there, even if someone did try to contact him. I would be very mad, that's embarrassing to have someone tell you they caught your husband on a singles site.