in my area everybody seems 2 hate me, or put me down. alot of the ppl tend to be stuck up and sarcastic in this area.
i need a new place to get away from it. its doing my head in
2007-03-06 23:20:24 · 24 answers · asked by b 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
in my area everybody seems 2 hate me, or put me down. alot of the ppl tend to be stuck up and sarcastic in this area.
i need a new place to get away from it. its doing my head in .
the fact is even my family says the people in this area are just horrible anyway. so it cant be me. also another thing is that the people are so negative, its unberlivable
2007-03-06 23:26:09 · update #1
you just assume people in your area dislike you , you sound depressed , so your perception of things is a bit negative , moving to a different area will not solve any issues you may have about your self ,your problems will go with you , no matter where you move to ,how aout trying a group or a confidence course , ? ,you will find you are not alone in your feelings ,when people put you down you allow it to happen ,because your self esteem is low at the moment , and when you feeling low , frustration comes into it and anger , so when you speaking back to people your whole outlook and attitude changes ,with out you bieng aware of diong it , , good luck , hope all works well with you
2007-03-07 04:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How awful for you, have you tried to find out why they keep putting you down?
I dont know if your at school or uni or a workplace.
I guess you must feel pretty isolated.
But as embaressing as it may seem, I would suggest asking the more approachable of them, and ask them exactly what the problem is, and that way you can address it. If you are doing nothing wrong, I would tell them all to eff off!!
And possibly join a club or something of interest to meet likeminded peopl.
I hope things improve for you soon
2007-03-06 23:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by sarah n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is such an emotive word and I ask, what makes you think they hate you?
Not speaking to you is not hate.
Ignoring you is not hate.
Could it just be that you are a more recent addition to the area?
Could it be that you ignore them?
As someone has already pointed out, it might be that they are of the same mind as you.
Break the ice.
Just say 'Good morning' to the same individual every time you see them (in the morning, of course).
Smile and the world smiles with you
2007-03-06 23:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by MANCHESTER UK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, you say you can't seem to fit into wherever you are?
cool down, and you can see the bigger picture. maybe you are being oversensitive, or maybe you're one of those people that have one-of-a-kind personalities that take some time in getting used to. or maybe you're in a place where the people around you have very low self-esteems. that's why they have to be arrogant and sarcastic (read: jealous) because you have a talent or something special in you that they don't have.
so chill! u'll be okay in time! :)
2007-03-06 23:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by hilz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I understand.....they read your message about how much you hate Britain, ya plonker. So now you better save up and go and live in Chicago, New York or Los Angeles coz it's only gonna get worse.
Stop telling ya neighbours that you hate Britain. Least said soonest mended.
2007-03-07 00:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by JonBovi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only choice you have is to get out of the area you are in, and make a fresh start where you are not known, so no one has any pre conceptions off you.
2007-03-06 23:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life the way you want to, not the way others want you too.
Let go of what you think they are thinking......who cares....it matters what you think.
If you feel like its bringing you down....get out...breath do something that makes you feel good.
If living in the area that you are in makes you feel down, consider moving and going on with your life..........
remember it doesn't matter what they think.......its you that you have to deal with on a daily basis...
best wishes
2007-03-06 23:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant see reason you got to move if yer happy were yer living now got yer own friends .
then why move alot of the time its just pure jeolousy ,best thing just get on with yer life stop worring about stuck up neighbours ,
2007-03-06 23:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What effort have you made to talk to people, or say hallo in the street, or even help out in the area? If you do nothing to change their minds, why should they change them?
2007-03-06 23:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by cuddles_gb 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then change I'm really sorry to here this,
not good living in a bad area ,
2007-03-06 23:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋