...they are secretly enquiring about their ex?
2007-03-06 23:17:39 · 28 answers · asked by L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not my marriage, but someone I know.
It's a woman enquiring about a woman ex.
2007-03-06 23:25:14 · update #1
It's obviously not cut-and-dried because it depends on the circumstances.
2007-03-10 14:04:13 · update #2
i would think this person is still i love with their ex, and may want to continue the relationship. i certainly would not put my trust in this person, i would keep my eyes open and know that there might be a good chance this person's heart isn't with u.
2007-03-06 23:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes of course it can mean they are committed to their marriage but if this is the case maybe the partner should ask themselves why their other half feels they need to enquire secretly.
2007-03-07 07:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by bobbleheado5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the person was truly happy then no they shouldn't be enquiring about an ex, they should be looking forward to the future with the partner they have now especially if they are married, unless their relationship isn't a happy one and they are trying to get back with their ex and in that case they should tell their partner there and then as it isn't fair on any of them
2007-03-07 09:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They may just be curious as to how they are doing. This does not show a lack of commitment to the marriage. Just curiosity of a past relationship. It is human nature to wonder about past individuals. Just because a relationship ends, does not mean you hate the person, or you want them to do bad in life. Some people are just a little more caring than others. I would not worry. God bless****
2007-03-07 07:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
inquiring about their ex is no reason to believe a person isn't commited to their marriage. I inquire about my ex all the time, ever heard the saying keep your friends close but your enemies closer?
Now if your spouse meets with the ex then I would worry but just inquiring isn't anything at all.
2007-03-07 07:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not be in a relationship if you "like" someone else but i also dont think that you should leave someone you love for someone you just have a crush on. Love is tricky and confusing. You might think that you love someone but you cauld have never been wrong more. You have to "feel" your hart and trust yourself. So no someone who enqueriers there ex is not in a commited marriage.
2007-03-07 07:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be fully committed to your marriage and want to know what happened to an ex. And you can think that your partner might get the wrong idea and that is why you don't say anything.
So my answer is "very probably".
2007-03-07 07:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by older mum 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like this person has not processed the divorce yet. Getting divorce is as serious as getting married. Some individuals do things when they are not emotional ready. Personally, I would ask him/her directly. This person is your best source. Remember than mutual communication and respect are a must for a healthy relationship.
2007-03-07 07:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really, unless a person does so because he/she is somewhat worried for the ex, example: if the ex is ill or has lost a job or is in a bad situation.
2007-03-07 07:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by remy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is hard to say without knowing why they are inquiring about there ex. Most likely no because if you married and are committed you won't worry about your ex what they are doing etc.
2007-03-07 07:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda confused, is the woman enquiring about her husbands ex? or her x that is a woman?
2007-03-07 08:12:24 · answer #11 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋