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what is the reason behind this ?


She is not loving me ?
Feeling pains ?
Not interested in Sex ?
but one thing she is fearing for other baby

Please suggest me for mutual relationship

2007-03-06 22:05:41 · 16 answers · asked by Noorul Ameen 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

16 answers

it is natural for women to loose interest in sex after delivering a baby, but you can keep the spark alive by experimenting things which are appealing to her and turns her on.

For instance, try watching a **** together, or try sex toys, lingeries, candle light dinner, bathe together, have sex with just the candles on.

I have just given some ideas, which may be helpful to you

2007-03-06 22:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by faiza_t 3 · 0 1

Your toddler is a few distance some distance too youthful to be having solids! regardless of the truth that in case you probably did start up early, antyhing before 4 months is easily no longer a reliable plan. Plus, he's not 3 months previous yet-it may in reality be some weeks away yet some weeks in a toddler's existence is a good bit! imagine how instantly they study issues and regulate over the gap of a week. Being lactose illiberal could have lots to do with introducing ingredients right into a toddler's sytem too youthful. do exactly not threat it. sure we were weaned at a youthful age even as our father and mom were elevating us yet lots has replaced about the ingredients we eat, the failings technology has learnt,etc. My middle son became weaned only previous 4 months previous. He became waiting for it as became breastfeeding each 2 hours for about 1/2 an hour. i became in reality giving him a teaspoon of toddler rice an afternoon for some weeks then upped it somewhat. This became after chatting with my well being client about it as I wasn't particular. on the top of the day inspite of the truth that, you want to consider what's suitable for you and your toddler. Why did you make certain to start up weaning contained in the first position? became your toddler extremely hungry? Are there different ideas you've taken-supply more suitable milk, flow onto hungry toddler milk, etc?

2016-12-05 08:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

She loves you, she is tired. Taking care of the babys needs and the home and in you walk more needs to be looked after. Im sorry, when you think of sex and you hear the baby cry in the next room.....reminds you why its safer to keep saying no. give her time let her rest and mend and allow the hormones to reset, also try helping her out. Draw her a nice warm bath with scented oils candles and take the baby, Nothing better than giving her a little time to herself, to a new mom that is better than sex. Best of Luck

2007-03-07 00:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Some Ladies take time to have sex after kid. They have to manage the house and also the kid so she will be tired. Give her some more time. Yes ladies do become preg during this period if her periods have not started after the birth of the kid. we think it as the safe period but actually it is very unsafe. you can use protection also so she might be relaxed. do talk with her abt this and sometimes ladies do have pain for sometime when you start to have sex after the delivery.

2007-03-06 22:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by madhu 2 · 1 0

Ok she isn't interested because she is probably scared of getting pregnant again, too tired from caring for the baby and your pressuring her could make her feel resentful towards you.
Men don't like women who nag them and new mothers don't like to be nagged for sex. She will come around, if not, then she may have post pardum depression in which she needs to see her doctor.

2007-03-06 23:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0 0

Listen Hun- She us tired and don;t want to be touched or bothered. She feels unattractive and worn out. It's her hormones. You need to buy her flowers and run her bath water and help out. Introduce birth controls if she doesn't want another baby right now. She is still I'm post-partum mode. This is natural. Help out with the baby more and try to listen to her when it comes to the baby. Don't start little fights. this will make it worst for you. Don't give up shivery is still there.

2007-03-07 03:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jamonican 4 · 0 0

Parenting role is very taxing and trying. Try to understand. Find out if she's having post-natal blues. Be patient and things will be fine. Meanwhile, it would be good if you could assist with some household chores or take care of the baby to allow her some private time.

2007-03-06 22:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 3 0

She probably isn't ready yet. She pushed a baby out of a opening that isn't very big, it's about the equivalent of you pushing an orange out your penis. It's no wonder she still doesn't want sex. Let her get there in her own time.

2007-03-06 22:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Notherenow 3 · 2 0

I don't think everything would be ok after the deliver she'll still have pain leave her untill she gets ready. She will feel the same oneday.i'm sure it won't take long.

2007-03-07 07:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by asin k 2 · 0 0

she probablt feels insecure about her body still, she needs to feel good about herself agian. no matter how u look it is very easy to start feeling insecure, escpecially after a baby. Try teeling her how pretty she is or touch her and show her that you are still interested in her and want to mak elove to her not that you just want to have sex.

2007-03-06 22:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0 0

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