2007-03-06 22:02:06 · 17 answers · asked by sonia s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is a part of life. If both r of positive attitude, co operative(that does not include use of wife's separate income if any, by husband, as husband has no right in that), respect each other , soft spoken, less talkative, not speak loudly, mentally mature & serious, non confrontationalist and reconciliatory, plan everything carefully, control the expenditures calculatedly , try best to make peaceful atmosphere everywhere and follow even minimum religious principles(after all we are not 100% communists) and God fearing , I can assure you that life will be least miserable after marriage. I've never faced any trace of misery after marriage rather my domestic life eased greatly after that though I was more confused & apprehensive of marriage than any average person. Over & above my wife is much more satisfied than me about marriage , though I am not an ideal person. I was motivated greatly by others for marriage, inside & outside the family. I never care other's backbiting and this helped me greatly in life. I don't like to complain against anybody in my personal life. I always try my best to eliminate causes of tension of any type for anyone around me. Be peace loving u will always be happy. We canot change the whole world but we can control ourselves.
2007-03-06 22:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how the two of you get along. In any marriage there are times where you'd like to literally strangle your partner, however once the dispute is over things are fine and good. Sex also helps to keep things on an even keel, as long as the sex is good.
I find my marriage is good 90% of the time. My wife, I'm sure, would agree.
2007-03-07 06:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Miserable because Marriage comes with lots responsibilities towards urself, ur wife , your Parents, & in Laws as well...Why it is Good & excellent, you will only come to know after marriage....
2007-03-07 06:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by abhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after u get married? Because you are with the one you love and are getting your future together is why its good. the fact that a lot of married couples dont know how to talk or express their feelings is what can make it difficult. When you feel somethig you should tell your spouse right away instead of holding it in an exp;oding over something small because of it.
2007-03-07 06:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all about destiny...sometimes it is path of roses and otherway thorny patch. One can never predict about life and luck also favours few persons and some are unlucky..Marraige is a gamble, u win or you loose, it is not the same for everyone.. so forget pains and live
2007-03-07 06:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by jana s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found the key to a happy marriage is for it to be open.
My first marriage was an open one.
Her mouth and my wallet
2007-03-07 06:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on an individual. To me, it's a pleasure and motivation. If you consider that way, it will become easy. If you have no cooperation from your hubby, be polite and cooperative to him and never conquer. And if he still doesn't care, kick him on his *** and teach him a lesson.
Same way, if it is your fault, he ows the same punishment for you.
2007-03-07 06:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are lucky u get an ideal wife then u r happy if not it is miserable
2007-03-07 06:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by anand_e_j 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your a fool, anyone can make any marrage work (exception! beaters need to be single) you have to work on a marrage, there can only be 1 most important person in your life! and thats your spouse! which is not your mommy/daddy he/she is your partner! what ever you do they are always welcome to do with you! turn that TV off! spend time with them, u never know when its their time to go...make it worthwhile, love is your purpus for liveing, makeing it work...LOVE not a agreement! its alot of work at frist but when u learn how to make love ( not SEX) it comes natural!
2007-03-10 03:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Jonathan c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b4 getting married, v liv 4 us n v do watever v want,buy watever v want but after marriage the situation is upside down.
2007-03-07 06:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by One strawberry- Ichi Ichigo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋