My boyfriend finished with me last week.He has a sister who is anorexic,and her sister makes him feel that he caused it. I told him that I had been having eating problems from stress with exams,he thought it was because of him and finished with me,'he had no alternative',and that can't deal with any stress from me at the moment. We had a row, I said 'so if you came to me with an eating problem', i should've just finished with you, and not be supportive', he just walked off! Have said sorry for hurting feelings in a text to him, now what? I see him around all the time, and we dated for a year and bit.
2007-03-06 21:51:50 · 3 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sounds like too much drama.
you typed you told him that you have been having eating problems, right?
Well, an eating problem is something like his sister seems to have.
You saying you have an eating problem thats caused by your school work isnt an eating problem, its you trying to make it out to seem like an eating problem, when all it is is you are not eating because youre problably too busy -- and too dumb to realize your body needs nutrients to maintain a certain level of coherentness, that will help keep you at optimal studying level.
But youre a female and girls need attention and sometimes do dumb things to try getting it from guys
You seem to be either jealous or competing and perhaps controlling with him, and youfailed to see that perhaps hes having his own ordeals hes goign through.
Relationships arent as difficult as people make them out to be.
Talk, be open plain and simple.
And be respectful, sensitive to the other persons, and compassionate.
How hard is that?
2007-03-06 21:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by writersbIock2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't like pity
if he has been going through all that emotions of his sister, you're the last person of a girlfriend to have same type of chapters he'll suffer same as he did for his sister.
He wants a strong woman that eats properly, keeps him high on her feet, and lets him happiness when he's down for his sister, or other situation.
Men may be written in romance books that are there for us for our own worst problems, they carry us from lake to lake and save us when we faint - all romantic books - but in reality, men are there for us when we are strong, and somehow remind him of his mum who brought him up, grew him up, and taught him to be a strong boy.
You need to grow up first of being strong, handling stress, being a woman, and believe me, you'll have a man that will die for you. Men love a woman to be strong, staborn, and their own bodyguard. Don't forget life is changing now, and the heros we imagined to come and safe us from hell, is now twisted and we are the heros of stupid men, going and saving their lives. Not only we work now, we bring family, we cook, we clean and we slave for the man, we are acting like man, and we even learn how to use an engeen, drive a motor bike and make mascles.
We should have been God ourselves. Who knows! May be in real life we are the Gods of men, since we do 100 things in one area, one go, whereas men can do only 1 thing in 100 hours!
CHEER UP GIRL! YOU DESERVE A BETTER ONE OUT THERE! LOVE YOURSELF FIRST, AND LET HIM GO CROWL TO HIS PITY LITTLE SISTER! IF THAT'S WHAT HE WANTS TO CHOOSE, IT'S HIS LOSS! YOU'RE THE BEST!
2007-03-07 05:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Spark S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you need this fella...he sounds like a huge ball of stress!
You need to get as far away from this ball of stress as possible...or YOU won't be very happy, anymore..and I honestly think that he doesn't sound like he would support you, in the slightest....you deserve somebody sooo much kinder..than he is willing to treat you!!
What do you think? WOuldn't you rather have more attention from a person than no attention?
think on that!!!
2007-03-07 05:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋