2007-03-06 21:19:38 · 7 answers · asked by Shannon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I suggest dealing with your present relationship (because it's the actual relationship that you are in), and forgetting about your ex. Lots of people think about their exes. That's the past. If you dump your bf to go out with your ex, then you'll very likely just repeat some old patterns and rediscover why you broke up in the first place. You very likely won't be happy.
It's not healthy to compare too much. It's also not healthy to have your mind on a guy other than the one you're with.
Good luck.
2007-03-06 21:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sense here that you really dont love this new guy but you are actually in love with the idea of being in love again. If this guy doesnt care about you then leave him alone as nothing good could ever come out of this kind of relationship and there is a real good chance youre going to get hurt. If you absolutely have to feel like you have to be in love and still have feelings for your ex, then talk to him if hes worth it. But never ever get involved with someone who doesnt have the same feelings as you do as this is the best recipe for disaster. Check your feelings, do some serious thinking about what you really want and with whom and then go for it. Good luck
2007-03-06 21:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not exactly sure the word love describes your man now.....you have given me that you have broken up with someone who means a lot to you, but you never describe why you love him, the one whom you are with now.
I would guess you are in a rebound, loving someone for so long that if taken away from that, anyone sounds good now.
Please don't throw your love at whoever comes next, there are tons of great guys that treat women with respect and openness that this one you are with now seems like a dirt bag.
You have much to offer if you let yourself......
2007-03-06 21:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put ur self n place of ur new boyfriend what feelings will across ur mind & body ?... i think it will hurt him badly f u leave him for ur ex , stay with the 1 who respects u more .. don lose both of them by doin such a dangerouse move like this as i said before u might lose both ... stay with the new.
2007-03-06 21:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by japan:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sort out your feelings and choose who you love more. your ex or your bf. then, work things from there.
2007-03-06 22:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused. Do you have any friend to talk about?
You can mail me if you want.
All the best.
2007-03-06 21:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by diamond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid the carless
2007-03-06 21:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋