that he will ever grow up?
You may have already read the story but here it is again for those who havn't.
I know a guy that really likes me, and for some crazy reason I sortof like him too. But he shows me that he likes me by trying to trip me all the time, sometimes throwing stuff at me, staring at me (so much that it gets really annoying), and alot of other stuff.
So is there anything I can say to him or do to make him realize that he needs to grow up without seeming like I'm flirting with him? Any advice will be very helpfull, thankyou.
~Brunette Poet ;)
2007-03-06 20:12:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
ok, he's not dangerous. he only throws stuff like once he was eating an orange and when he made sure I wasn't looking at him, he threw part of it at me, very disgusting.
2007-03-06 20:25:33 · update #1
When he does that stuff don't giggle or smile. In fact even having a good yell at him might help and just walk away and ignore him. Make it be known in no uncertain terms that you are annoyed with him and that kind of behaviour will not work. When he is more settled and talking to him respond well, smile a lot and show a lot of interest in him. The second he reverts to stupidity turn cold. If that fails, it might just take a couple of years for him to grow up.
2007-03-06 20:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by Miss La La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he craves your attention, and anything he gets from you makes him like it even more. The tripping and throwing things seems almost criminal, but I don't doubt your love for him, I just question his mental rationallity.
I would reccomend not getting involved with him, but if you are, find some way to put some space in between you so that he can move on. He sounds dangerous to me. What if when you develop your relationship he no longer feels the need to trip you, but to strangle you? Or what if instead of throwing things at you, he starts hitting you? His stare downs are a dead giveaway, this guy is a control freak craving attention.
Use whatever means you have to separate yourself from him, either with friends, parents, siblings, or whatever......this guy sounds like trouble to me.
2007-03-07 04:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the style of quite young people who are still playing a bit irrationally before they may get unto the serious aspects of adult life - it's like crawling before he may learn to walk upright. But as the one in an interaction where you are the most mature you might try to see the charming sides of the relation. For instance, flirting may be the most beautiful aspect of free life.
But of course he ought to realize that everything has a limit, and that everything ought to have a better style, but in this you might be quite helpful to him so you might sort of try to build up something with more concrete perspective together.
Being the most mature between you and him, you might try to teach him something, and you might even try to involve him in some cultural activity, one which your intuition makes you believe that it might evoke his entusiasm.
But, anyhow, you might enjoy these times of sometimes even annoying playfulness. In a few years you might really miss such a playfulness of life, and I tell you, time goes fast! Good luck!
2007-03-07 04:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by pasquale garonfolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight up exactly what you think. Guys don't take hints. They need a brick to the head approach.
2007-03-07 04:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like him for what he is. If you don't like the whole package then settle for another. Don't tell the guy to change. If you want him to be according to what you think he should be, then go date yourself.
2007-03-07 04:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by sk|TTLes™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the task will seem daunting but honestly the best way to approach this situation is by telling him how YOU feel and telling him that you like him and that you dont like his "signs of affection" but like him as a person.
2007-03-07 04:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Paul Wall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if yall like in 6th grade you know that's how you act but if yall in 7th in up, he's childish just tell him to stop. cause that's making you not like him more and more. if you do this i bet you he'll stop bein so childish
2007-03-07 04:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by little_matie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe if you do start dating then things will change . if not then you better start talking to him . nothing can't be done with open communication . he might not change instantly but at least he knows his flaws.
2007-03-07 04:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Gosh, is your relationship really that bad? If yes, I think you should leave...
2007-03-07 04:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
leave him...thts the best advice i can give u
2007-03-07 04:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by catch_me_tito 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋