i became friends with a transgender at work and although I was never told, I was given hints by this person. I never acknowledged that I knew because it did not matter to me. I like this person because of their personailty and not their sex. Instead of trying to be friends-this person thought I was out to 'get them or something' and was recording our telephone calls. I tried to stop communication but she continued to enter my life. I fell in love and basically instead of becoming closer it seem we grew apart. She still thinks I don't know and I will never say until she tells me. I hurt because I was very honest in alot of information I told her and she had others listening to our conversations. She is still in my face and I cannot understand why. Why would she tell all my secrets when I have never mention hers? She thinks I am an idiot and all I wanted wasa very god friend. Confused and hurt in a country town but from a contempory country girl.
2007-03-06 20:00:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'd cool it Hon. Some TG folks tend to be paranoid like that.
2007-03-06 20:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
this is very odd. why would she think you were out to get her? why record conversations? it seems so strange. if i were you, i would try to stay as far away as possible from her... if thats totally impossible... youre going to have to talk to her. like- REALLY talk to her.. tell her how you felt, or still feel... i woulnt bring up the gender change... uh... if you fear she's recording, then........ i suppose youre just going to have to confront her about that.. sheesh. the recording thing is REALLY weird. im sorry about your situation.
either stay away completely and get over her. she sounds dangerous. if getting over her and staying away is not possible, because she's 'in your face,' talk to her... but be really careful.
DUDE. i would just stay away! she could really damage you.... be REALLY careful with what you say! thats sooo funky! so weird. STAY AWAY.
god. i hope you dont still love her, for your sake.
edit: if you dont live in oregon, i think you can pin her for the recordings...
2007-03-06 20:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by louie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would think there are laws against that sort of thing.
i would see a lawyer.
2007-03-06 20:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My brother cut off his balls and calls himself K.......Now "she" lives a life of deceit,lies,half-truths,and any and all hurt full and cruel deceptions in order to perpetrate its selfish existence.This #%*&#@! forces its boys to celebrate Mothers Day with HIM(PUKE GAG)and lies to all about his past.Good luck
2007-03-06 23:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 9⤋
What??????????????
2007-03-07 03:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋