For example..with boyfriends/girlfriends?
spouses, fiance's?
family?
other friends?
Secrets?
Money..loaning, borrowing etc...
or even loaning or borrowing other items too....
and everything else?
Why?
Would you be angry, or do you forgive?
what would it depend on,and why?
2007-03-06 19:59:00 · 8 answers · asked by ladyk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is an old saying that someone shouldn't go into business with a family member or a close friend. That's where I would draw the line. I've worked with close friends. I've seen what kind of strain it could put on a relationship. As for loans, that's OK. I would feel comfortable with giving loans to friends. As for secrets, I trust my friends without doubts, even moreso than my own family members in some cases. Usually we share so much "dirty laundry" that it kind of keeps us in a reality check as to what would happen if we ever had a "spat". I have been upset before, but always have a tendency to forgive after some time has passed. Friends should be forever. Just don't go into business with them.
2007-03-06 20:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
I'd go to the ends of the earth for a someone I was really close to - even a relatively good friend.
I'd be angry if they took advantage of me, or used me.
But I would NEVER help them with something just cause they're too lazy to do it themselves.
2007-03-07 04:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they hurt kids they crossed the line and I'd have to hurt and kill them. If most of them killed someone I would have to turn them in, other than if they had some justifiable reason for it, then I'd help them bury the body... Aside from that I can forgive my good friends and most relatives of most everything, though I never forget, and i LOVE to say 'I told you so', even decades later...
2007-03-07 04:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
`The line` as you call it is a flexible thing on all of the things you mention... it depends on who it is exactly and how I feel. It depends on what I believe and on what they want from me..
I try not to be or become angry and I try to immediately forgive if needed... It would depend on my own feelings and instincts...
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2007-03-07 04:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER LOAN MORE THAN 50 DOLLARS TO FRIENDS WITHOUT SOME SORT OF WRITTEN AGREEMENT./////NEVER DATE YOUR BEST FRIENDS MAN /WOMANOR **** HIM/HER EVEN AFTER THEY HAVE BROKEN UP--FOR 10 YRS..AFTERWARD AND TILL YOU KNOW IT'S COMPLETELY OK- WITH EVERYONE. IF YOU HAVE BEEN BEST FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE FOR MORE THAN 15 YRS AND THERE WAS A SECRET THAT DIDN'T JEOPARDIZE ANYONE-YOU NEVER TELL.- I PERSONALLY DON'T TRUST ANYONE BUT MY GIRLFRIEND, MY LAWYER, AND MY DAD. I DON'T TRUST MEN AND I DON'T TRUST WOMEN EITHER EXCEPT MY GIRLFRIEND OF 10 YRS. CALL ME ANTISOCIAL BUT I DO FINE WITH A BOOK AND A MOVIE AND A PIZZA BY MYSELF. SINCE I HAVE BEEN SCREWED OVER SO MANY TIMES I CUT NEARLY EVERYONE OFF. WELL FOR ME THAT'S JUST HOW IT IS.
2007-03-07 04:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i give my sister money all the time and i do not expect her to ever pay me back
same with my friends and i know if i ever need it they will give it to me
but then i only deal with people i can trust and i know who have my back the same way i have theres
2007-03-07 04:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom and sisters and people i dislike?
2007-03-14 23:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by chelse d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE SHWS CUNNGNESS. ITS DESPICABLE.
2007-03-07 04:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋