I am friends with a man who like me is in a commited relationship. He has constantly tried to get the both of us alone as he has expressed a desire in me. I've already told him that there was no way in the world anything between us would ever happen and I'm debating telling his girlfriend what kind of a man he really is. Any advice would be appreciated. Should I tell his girlfriend about what he's been doing?
2007-03-06 19:47:56 · 6 answers · asked by Elmira 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No don't tell. That would just blow up in your face. I would advise trying to get her to see it somehow. She doesn't deserve that. But if you try to tell her it is likely something would work out badly for you. Probably worse than for him, or anyone else involved. You could confide in your significant other about it maybe, though sometimes that can cause a strain if you want to stay friends with the guy who wants you to cheat with him.. telling most often doesn't work. Plotting to have him reveiled is better.
2007-03-06 19:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just keep building bigger and bigger walls between you . Refuse to even discuss anything with him - he would certainly try to turn the conversation to persuading you to be with him.
Treat him like the plague and only be polite if the situation requires it in public.
Let his girlfriend find out herself what kind of guy he is. He will deny everything, I guarantee it.
2007-03-10 18:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, rather stay out of it - he might convince her that you're just jealous, then you'll have to get rid of both of them.
Why be friends with someone like this? He obviously does not know what it takes to be a good boyfriend, why would it matter to him to be a good 'friend'..though I reckon he just wants to get into your pants.
Rather tell him to get lost and say a prayer for his poor girlfriend. Women aren't stupid, for all you know she's aware that he's up to no good and just waiting for the right time to burst his bubble.
2007-03-06 20:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only tell you what i would do
i would tell her and your man
2007-03-06 20:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she won't believe you and will more than likely blame you.
2007-03-06 19:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST.
2007-03-06 19:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋