1st off I just created this alt ID cuz I'm pretty embarrassed about asking questions regarding this topic. And have posted this under a different category as well, but I need some advice from the good people here.
My fiance and I have dabbled in role play to spice it up a lil. Pretty standard stuff: Teacher/Student, Dr/Nurse, etc.
It's been good so far but I want to do something different and am worried it may turn him off.
We were watching an episode of Las Vegas(his fave show) where one of the charatcer's drinks is spiked causing her to pass out. It got me thinking that I'd be really into it if he captured me like that. Obviously not for real but pretend. But I'm nervous about telling him and don't want him to think I'm weird.
2 questions:
- How can I ease him into this? and
- Love to be able to give him some examples.on how he could capture me like they do on TV or the movies to make it easier.
Obviously this is pretend and for fun only.
Thx in advance for any help!
2007-03-06 19:41:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Given that you are into spicing it up and so is he I don't see how he would have any issue with something like that. It is only on the fringe of the bondage stuff. explore the boundary and see if he (and you) like it. Ask him outright to try it and see. It's not like you are asking him to jump into whips and chains....
2007-03-06 19:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes in to all the other role playing then why wouldnt he want to do some more? plus its from his favorit show!!! thats most likely a plus! just tell him one night while in bed he'll be cool about it!
2007-03-07 08:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's the right person for you. You should be able to talk to him about anything you desire to do or talk about. So talk to yourself first. Figure it out and you'll know what to do. If your just in it for sex, Then get what you want out of that to. Or why be there?
2007-03-07 03:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by bb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime soon when you two are kissing and cuddiling ask him to devulge one of his fantasy's. Then when it is your turn tell him what you would like to try. I bet with you two already warmed up that he would be vary eager to fufill yours.
2007-03-07 03:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by independentthinker49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your man is spicy enough he can do what ever you want
men hate when girl is nagging and it turns them off
speaking through playing love greatly helps him to do so men need to be patted like girls so pour oil on his flames ( estimulate him) ... then you get result
2007-03-07 04:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by mohammad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be right up front about it
2007-03-07 03:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by Raymond B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BOTH SHULDHAVE UNSPIKED DRINKS.
2007-03-07 03:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋