I tend to get hit on by gay men. Im straight and love women...But is this a good thing or bad thing? I got nothing agaisnt gay or lesbians...i dont get offended....My Gf makes fun of me all the time...But I just try to have fun with it...
2007-03-06 19:39:27 · 6 answers · asked by memo n 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No you are not sending out the wrong vibe. Chances are the gay men who are hitting on you know that you are comfortable with them doing so. That's probably the only vibe you are sending out....that you are comfortable in your sexuality and with your looks and thus that you are not offended or bothered with either gender hitting on you. I wouldn't consider it a bad thing at all and if you're comfortable with it (and your gf is comfortable knowing that both guys and gals think your attractive) then that seems like a good thing to me. I mean, I guess I never understood why anyone would find it bad to be considered attractive to people. Although, it's best to remain humble so as to not let our egos get tooooo out of control. :)
Peace be with you.
2007-03-06 21:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by gabriel_zachary 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just one of those kind of guys that have a "gay" look to them. No offence but alot of guys nowadays give wrong vibes even when they don't mean to.
Or maybe you're just really good looking to men and women.
2007-03-07 03:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that hot? I get hit on by gay men all the time. Maybe that's because I AM that hot and gay too.
2007-03-07 04:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a choice!
Either be metro-sexual or get an attitude.
It is all preception. You are sending out signals saying you are available to them.
If you are ok with this and want to be approached,then fine...but one day you will hurt someone by sending an invitation and then rejecting them.
Think about how hard it is for you to mustard up the nerve to ask a stanger to hook-up. You feer rejection. You are just playing the controler and are going to get in trouble.
Next, your girlfriend will be asking you to pickup guys for her.
2007-03-07 03:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by Larry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe.
i'll trade places with you any time.
i'd love be to hit on.
2007-03-07 04:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you are probably just attractive.
2007-03-07 03:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋