my due date is (projected, im only 12 wks) Sept 9, and im scared i will have her on sept 11th?
i dont want her birthday to be associated such a horrendous event? birthdays are very important and i want all of hers to be joyous.....my friends grandma died on her birthday and her whole family is gloomy that day every year. it sux for her.
Anyone elses birthday/ child's birthday attached with some bad event. is it a big deal?
2007-03-06 19:34:59 · 15 answers · asked by Not here 2 make friends 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There are thousands of children who have been born on Sept 11th in the last 5 years. There's nothing you can do about when your baby is born, but no matter what it will be a joyous occasion.
Be thankful you're not smoking or doing anything else totally imbecilic that will ruin the health of your unborn child. Then you really would have something to worry about.
2007-03-06 20:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tricia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my great aunt died on my birthday when i was turning 13. the year after people commented but there was none of this gloomy factor. i guess she went in her sleep of old age so while we miss her, it wasn't a horrific way to go.
It will only be a "bad day" if you make it. Any birth day should be a beautiful occasion and many things happen on any day of the year but that doesnt mean someone who's born on those days needs to be forgotten so everyone can feel gloomy and like the day is not worth living. birthdays are special to those family members involved. if your baby's born on the 11th there will be that 10 minutes where you think about the event that happened but the rest of the day should be made for your child. it isn't selfish of you to think of your own child first and i seriously don't think its that bad for your child to be born on such a day. I was born on the 13th and at school people said it was bad luck but now its my day and my lucky number! i also have a friend born on the 10th september and while its a day early, hasnt had any remarks or bad feelings about the day after (considering he was born at 11.30 ish pm on the 10th!)
2007-03-06 19:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She'll come out when she wants to. You really have no control over it. I would just try to make the best of it for her sake if she does end up being born on the 11th. Once she's born on that day, you'll all have a reason to be happy!
When there's a gloomy day due to a major event, try to find the sunshine! Your daughter will be that sunshine for you and your family!
Congrats!!
2007-03-06 19:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by impossiblemama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your baby is born on 9/11 then you have an oppurtunity to turn a normally sad and horrible day into a joyous occasion. I wouldn't think your baby being born on any certain day would change the meaning of his/her birthday. Congrats btw!!!
2007-03-06 19:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My middle son was due on September 5th, and for some reason I was really worried that he would be born on my ex boyfriends birthday (august 25th.) I was with him for 4 years, we shared a lot, but I didn't want my husbands and my child to be associated with him. It really stressed me, and sure enough, 2pm on the 25th of August I started having contractions. At 9:30pm they told me I was ready to push, I said no, it was my ex boyfriends birthday and I wanted to wait until 12:00am. They thought I was joking but I had never been more serious in my life. Well he was born August 25th, 2003 at 10:02pm, my ex boyfriends birthday.
To cut a long story short, now it doesn't even bother me. I thought it would, but no. Yes, on his birthday I do briefly think it's his birthday too, but thats all. August 25th is my sons birthday, a special day for that reason.
The chances of your baby being born on september 11th is fairly slim, it can go a month either way. But even if it is september 11th, as like me, if it does happen it wont be the terrible thing you imagine it to be. it will be your beautiful little girls special day, and for that it will be cherished!
Good luck with your little girl!
2007-03-06 19:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a friend who was born April 20th. That's Adolf Hitler's birthday, and also the day of the Columbine High School shooting. He is now a normal and functional adult, after having a normal, happy childhood. I wouldn't worry about it. Like everyone else has said, the day is what you make of it. Congratulations!
2007-03-06 19:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by startthisover 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This early it could go days before or days after.
Should your baby be born on September 11, just tell everyone "She is the best thing to ever happen on 9/11!"
2007-03-06 19:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 12:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your baby's birthday is what you and your family make of it. If you choose to make it a great day for her/him that is what he/she will remember. Show them when he/she is old enough that what happen on that now historic tragic day that brought a country together to help each other, support, love open there homes to strangers. Assist in helping people with out looking at what they are wearing, color of there skin, or what religion they prefer. Show them that it was YES a great day of sadness , but It was a day that all people came together to HELP some one. That is what i would teach my child.
IT IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT
2007-03-06 19:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by its just a joke 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never been in this situation before, but I can suggest that to avoid the birthdate of September 11th, you can always discuss with your doctor to schedule a C-section before or even after the 11th.
2007-03-06 19:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋