sometimes ppl arnd us, who knows us ,..but when we r in trouble, they dont help us allthough they in position to do so..so easily...why they act like this?
2007-03-06 19:30:56 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1. Because they dont want to take the trouble of helping others. 2. They dont want to be where they are not wanted - so maybe you should ask them for help.
3. Maybe they are busy or going through some difficult period in their lives too.
4. Maybe they are jealous of you or your progress and enjoy seeing you in that situation.
5. Think back if you had overlooked previous situations when you could have helped them and didnt due to various reasons. They maybe following your principle.
6.It is time for you to make new good friends who would be there for you when you need them.
7. If it is financial help you are referring to, then believe me my dear, nobody in today's world would do that since everyone have their own financial problems or dreams. I have learnt it is always best in this case to keep an emergency savings from where you can take when needed - which never happens in my case, since I always give when people ask me - so I end up having no help when I need too.
2007-03-06 19:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Star of the Sea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it depends on the type of help, who it is, reason to help, ppl making jugements, discernment, many reasons. I too often wonder. Then there are ppl who want you to make it on your own, so you can know you are able to suceed. I need a heater core put in my old car, but is someone there to help, they want 300:00 dollars for labor, so I may try to put it in myself. I do not know how, but will check it out. Sometimes it can be very difficult, especialy if you can not work. Good Luck Be not dicourage you help those who you can, one day there will be someone to help you when the time is right. I think that is true!
2007-03-06 19:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by my4dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Aklesh
Try to be independent , dont depend on anyone thinking that they help you in difficulties .
you should face the problem and prove yourself that you can face the problems and not afraid of anything .
There are many people who help others .
Due to the quality of possesive, selfish and jealous , they will not come forward to help.
So be independent, face the problems easily .
2007-03-06 19:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They r plain mean,I tell you.Honestly,whenever I get a chance I help people around me.I know what you are saying.Even if some one is a black belt in Karate,he/she will never help a boy being beaten up at the road!But the kind hearted peole,If they see someone being beaten they will help by themselves,not caring for themselves.These things happen in life.
2007-03-06 19:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by H2O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See all indians here will be ready to help you. But none of neighbours / relatives would like to help you. The reason is no one knows what you give in return to them.. But here on net everyone will try to help you , suggest you. reason they get in return of a simple satisfied smile from you. which is the thing they expecting from needfull
2007-03-06 20:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by prashant_bele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are selfish.only there are few person in the world who help in the time of difficulties.they are your parents and a true friends.another thing is people think that if they will help u.u will get success or u will be more rich than them.no one can bear that anybody goes up.
2007-03-06 19:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see yaar i m an indian so answering in our language....
aaj ki duniya matlabi hai yaar ,swarthi(selfish) hai,yahan k logo mein dikhawatipan zyada hai.bs jb tk unka matlab ya kaaam niklta hai doosron se ve humse achi se bat bartaaav krenge lekin jb unka kaam nikal jaata hai ve humein pehchaaan ne se bhi inkar kr dete hain.but m not lik others whenever u will need help ask me i'll try my best to help u....my id is lalit_foru2000@yahoo.com
2007-03-06 19:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by lalit d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause they dont wanna intefere in ur personal affairs.. or maybe they're afraid to help cause if u take their advice and it backfires you'll blame em for the rest of ur life and they dont wanna live with that?? humans are complicated and strange when it comes to dealin with real life situations... most of us are always jus scared! if u really want help askl for it and assure em that you wont hate them if it doesnt work !
2007-03-06 19:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by I V X 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋