I cheated on husband and and in love with other man.
Husband and I have been going trough some problems and after 26 years I thought why not he never look at me the way I deserve or thought I deserved. After a lot of arguments I finally got him to agree to move so other man could move in, or so I thought. My only son who is 13, got himself a Guardian Adlightom and got a restraining order against other man!
I can't move him in and to top it off his guardian adlightom has stated I"m an unfit parent who cheated!
My son is considered a minor, but because of his age(13) he has the right to choose who he want to live with, he said HIS FATHER, and i'm Pissed at his answer because it means I have to move from home and now sister tell me I have to pay $690.00 a month for child support! and son wont see me either! I lost home, saving, and son, if I'm finally happy it's okey, but other man left too. I have nothing now, child support to pay and hate my son who destroyed my happiness.
help me?
2007-03-06 19:09:38 · 3 answers · asked by disturb m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can not believe that you said your son destroyed you happiness.
I think you destroyed his happiness. You do not move your husband out to move another man in what do you think your son was going to say. I can not believe you even had the nerve to say you hate your son.
You are not a mother at all. You are a selfish person and need to seek therapy. You are very disturbed. Read what you wrote and see if anyone should feel sorry for you I think not. I could not believe what you wrote.
If you did not want to be with your husband anymore that is fine if you are too lasy to seek therapy and try to work it out for you son . Then you should have moved out your husband and took care of your son and then at some point once things were stable with you son because divorce or seperation is very hard on a child then maybe you could have started dating.
When you are a parent your child comes first before anything else and you never for any reason hate them. A parents love is suppost to be unconditional.
You wonder why you are where you are now.........I am very glad to hear it maybe now you can find out why you are so selfish and from there maybe you can learn how to be a parent.
Go for your son. Hope his life is wonderful with your husband because I can tell you one thing is has to be better there than with a mother that can hate him.
Wake up and Get a thought.....................................You are a sick women
2007-03-07 01:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Virginia B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help you do what? You got what most cheaters deserve! I've got to thank you though. While reading your post I was increasingly excited to hear the out come, all the way to the final " No husband, no son, no savings, no cheating boy friend! Yahooooooo! Reciprocity in action baby! I hope other potential cheaters read this and learn from your example! My son read this and thinks it's inspiring that you got clobbered. Smart kid! My wife read this and her mouth dropped open and asked the same question I did. Help with what? I'm going to have to bookmark this question! Hell, I'll even give you a star for it! This is one for Oprah!
2007-03-07 21:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
loser
2007-03-10 23:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋