Trust in Allah almighty, will never leave you alone.
2007-03-06 19:08:17
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answered by Anonymous
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First I am sorry that you are going through this. There is really nothing that anyone can say to make things better. With the help of god and time you will start to feel better. Think about what your parents did for you and how much they loved you. Thank god for all that they brought into your life. They will always remain alive in everything you do because they shaped who you are. You probobly feel alone and as if you will never get past this but that is how life is. I lost my grandmother (who raised me) 3 yrs ago and sometimes I still cry out of nowhere because I miss her so much. I thank god for all the yrs we shared together. I thank him for giving me the best grandma in the world. I wish you luck. be strong.
2007-03-07 03:21:32
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answered by JESS 1
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Dont be a cry baby, seeking sympathy from the world. You hav your life to live, get up and get going, Everyday some person in the world loses his parents. Dont ppl get along with this reality.
I wud blame ur parents for putting u in this plight. Must have pampered u bad wid love and attchment, so u now seem lost.
So un-attachment is the key..Get to live ur life widout getiing attched..U wud never feel lonely..And all this bul lshit of God being there & ur parents being up there as stars in the sky wont get u anywhere.. Work and only work wud get u out of this. All the best!!!!
2007-03-07 12:38:19
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answered by Koolkat 1
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I'm so sorry for your tragedy. I sympathy for you and your family. Being alone is the worst anyone can be in. weather you have broken up with a boyfriend or divorce or even death. It's gonna hurt for sometime. Ones emotions are so torn up, that ones heart even hurts. Ive been alone too for other reasons. I've felt that I can't move on. I had this emptiness in me that I can't describe. The security that you once had and felt is gone. I was feelin lost and hopeless. But remember that this too shall pass. Life has its way of testing us. and its how we react and how our attitude is. Please it will only take time to heal your loneliness. You are a survivor. Good luck and take care. Things can only get better for you.
2007-03-07 03:21:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Death is inevitable. All of us have to face such tragedy in our life. There are many cases where parents are suffering where they have lost their child due to untimely death by accidents.
Firstly you were not prepared for such a situation. Even for a 60 year old person the death of his/her father or mother is a personal loss. But time could be the best healer. If nothing works you can consider counseling.
2007-03-07 04:03:08
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answered by cnsone 4
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Be around your other relatives. Are you married, if not and you are of an eligible age, maybe you should think of getting married. If you are already married, maybe you can discuss the possibilities with your spouse of adopting parents. There are elders in old age homes who would love to be part of a family again.
If you are a minor, just keep yourself busy with your studies, extra curricular activities and wait until you start earning to think about the above ideas.
All the best!!
2007-03-07 03:25:06
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answered by Star of the Sea 3
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Before two years i was feeling alone bcz of my elder sister's death.Her marrige was fixed and we lost her before two days of her marrige after her death we join Nirankari mission.It gives us lot's of internal satisfaction and happines .I am telling u a one true thing that nothing is in our hand .If it is in our hand i'll be on the post of IAS or Prime minister of INDIA .Don,t worry after some time u will feel better u need a good friend if it is u can talk to me by mail or chat my E-mail ID is "meena_fandan@yahoo.co.in"
2007-03-07 03:22:45
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answered by meenakshi 2
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It is so hard to lose a parent let alone two of them. I lost my dad 13 years ago. He was my rock. He was my best friend.
How do you go on? You are now the older generations. Be a friend to your nieces, grandkids or kids. Choose to get together with other family members and make new memories.
You are in the cycle of life. It can be painful. 'But those of us left behind need to not only grieve but we also need to embrace life and live it the best we can. Our lost loved ones want us to be happy.
2007-03-07 03:26:41
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answered by clcalifornia 7
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hello friend.
i have gone thru the same thing when i lost my dad.
1. PRAYERS really helped me. i was devastated. God intervened, took my hand and showed me that He cared. Pray and exorcise the PAIN so that life is easier to live.
2. try to join the sahajayoga community. www.sahajayoga.org. do TWO things.
A. click on "experience it now"
B. try to join a center which is in ur town. its all for free and sahajayogis are v.helpful.
3. try to read the book and other works by Dr Brian Weiss. read: MANY MASTERS ,MANY LIVES.
it will help you come to terms with their death, to understand death and the PURPOSE of life n death.
4. you will, if u ask GOD for it, get to "meet" your parents in ur dreams sometimes.
do not hesitate to email me, my friend. i know, losing ur parents is the worst pain od can inflict upon us.
May God be with you...
(try to go out, meet people,do not sit alone n brood)
2007-03-07 10:41:19
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answered by Anonymous
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feel very sad to hear that but thats what life is.just think you had parents to love at least for some time ,some havent seen their parents at all.you have to fulfill their wishes there is lot to do in this world.keep smiling.make lots of friends and spend some time with people who have lost their loved ones.console them.take things +ve.nobody is alone in this world .dont worry their somany friends giving their shoulders to help u.cheer up.
2007-03-07 04:57:01
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answered by revathy l 2
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Death doesn't mean the removal of the persons existence the only difference is the person is not physically present feel their existence they will always with you in joy or sorrow and give you advice whenever you need them the only thing you have to do is feel them.
2007-03-07 04:19:27
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answered by sanskriti 1
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