My heart has mended and I am redy for love.How do you find out if your potential partner do's not have a S.C.D. without insulting her.Condoms I can use. but what about Dining out.If you know what I meen. A good answer and spelling will get you 10 points.Insults will get you nothing.
2007-03-06 18:48:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's pretty scary out there!
She will be wondering the same thing about you.
I would recommend a few dates first and then when things are going to get intimate, I would say something like... I really enjoy your company and are dates have been great. This is kind of awkward but I've been tested and I'm O.K. I thought you might want to know.
If she doesn't tell you if she's been tested and O.K. or that she's been celibate since her last relationship years ago.
it's time to forget about that meal.
Good luck, be safe!
2007-03-06 18:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Rich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
25 years have seen a LOT of change, but then again, nothing has changed. Have you met your potential partner yet?
You are not ready for love yet, you are ready for sex - BIG difference! Now, that said, there is nothing that you are going to say to her that will NOT insult her at this point regarding her sexual exploits and whether she is clean of STD's. You really need to get to know the lady a bit more before you become intimate and then you both should be able to broach the subject confortably with each other.
If by "Dining Out", you are meaning "dining at the Y", you should use a dental dam on her and she could use a condom on you. Practicing safe sex will not hurt anyone and is the smart thing to do at any age!
2007-03-06 19:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by LilacTigress 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be upfront about your status as being disease free
and your hiv status.
the last guy i met , i was upfront and got tested.
he didn't,
so we didn't do anything.
i do feel he fools around to the point
of being at risk for hiv.
so remember , if a potential partner isn't upfront
move on.
it could save your life.
2007-03-06 19:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by john john 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be cool, be your self and always play it safe- Wear a rain coat :)
Have good time while out on your date. It will be just fine.
2007-03-06 20:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't ask a woman if she has any STDs. Just use condoms, always keep one in your wallet in case of emergency, thats what many guys do.
2007-03-06 18:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wally just be yourself
use a condom
make her dinner but relax more it will seem cooler to her
2007-03-06 18:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by q6656303 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋