i prefer you people here. you make sense.
2007-03-06 18:25:42 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
Well, I don't know where you have been in life but I know that you are human. Still that is not an excuse for cheating either.
I am married also. I am not a bad looking guy (38) yrs. old.
There will always be attractive women around until your life expires.
Before I met my wife, I had the pleasure to travel the world over the years and fulfilled my adventures with different women.
I am glad that I got that out of my system. I am very much in Love with my wife. I have tears of joy , a soothing chill in my soul , I can feel the throb in my heart and I have a special motivation that I never had before.
I don't need to bone any other woman but my own wife.
You should examine the lust that is within you. Where does it come from.
I already did my hustling. I don't need to hustle anymore. I am contented.
2007-03-06 18:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by Big P 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are trying to find an excuse to leave your wife by asking advice online. Why don't you do your own analysis of your emotions in relation to your wife. If you still love her and that you just find physically attracted to a woman (nothing on the emotional side), then you know it is just lust and it will soon pass. It is a different matter when you feel for this new woman the love that you have earlier felt with your wife. But again, as long as respect is there between you, no quarrels or hurting words to divide you, weigh all aspects then think hard on what you really want to do.
Don't just make hasty decision. Analyze your feelings well.
2007-03-06 18:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by arienne321 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you used the word "attracted" takes a lot more than attraction to be happy. What would you do if the other lady had an accident and became crippled for life with scars would you still be attracted. Looks are like wrapping paper you dont appreciate what you have til you look inside.Beauty only skin deep remember that. Moths are "attracted " to flames need I tell you what the end results of that attraction is
2007-03-06 22:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by jojo j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you happy with your wife? have you tried to make things with your wife work? if you're not happy and no kids are involved then theres no sence staying in a loveless marriage. as for the other woman, is she just super hot and you want to bang her or is there an emotional connection. have you considered that you're going through a rough patch and you need to focus on something else (other woman)? is it mid-life crisis time? concider everything before making a stupid choice.
2007-03-06 18:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will always be attracted to another woman, and you will always find a woman who looks better than your wife. That is not a good enough reson to leave your wife, especially if she is faithful to you.
2007-03-06 18:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
attraction to another human being will always be a part of human nature. i've been attracted to another man once in my life but i paid no attention to it for my family is still the best thing that happened in my life. attraction in due time will fade for those kind of feelings are not permanent, it is but a passing thing. love, surpasses all trials and hardships in life. so please dont mistaken this attraction for love. but it's going to be a different situation if you're in love with another woman and you fall out of love with your wife. goodluck and take care.
2007-03-07 04:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are reasons why you married your wife. there are also reasons why you are attracted to another woman. it a misconception that just because you are attracted to another woman, you no longer love your wife. you married your wife because there are reasons why. just for you to dig deep down yourself to know and remember why.
the reason why a lot of marriages dont work out is because they both give up easily.
2007-03-06 19:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you should . attraction is normal , you didn't say that you have fallen in love with somebody else and fallen out of love with your wife . also it is ok to get attracted to other women so long as you do nothing about it . admire from a distance and don't do anything to make that distance disappear ......
2007-03-06 20:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did marry her "in sickness and in health, till death do you part"
Are there children involved?
There's nothing wrong with having a wandering eye as long as that is all it is.
Put your pecker away and try to work it out with your wife.
2007-03-06 20:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by PC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you bloody hell know the answer go leave your wife then get to another woman panty.its called adultery and you are ready to be burn in hell
2007-03-06 21:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by putangnm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋