I am so bored and lonley with my life I keep turning to bad things to ease this ache in my heart....loser guys, drugs, booze....how do I find hapiness again after breaking up w my abusive bf of 15 years? It's been 4 months but it only seems to be getting harder.
2007-03-06 18:17:16 · 21 answers · asked by lazy_n_spoiled 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2007-03-06 18:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Electric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I of 14 years just broke up on new years eve. We had broken up once before, and I dealt with it the same way you are. I am telling you that is not the answer!!!! It only makes it harder. Everything has to be dealt with sooner or later. I feel your pain. I am also lonely, it is hard to go out and meet new people. If he was abusive he might have taken away your self esteem. So please take this time to heal yourself. Enjoy some time to yourself. Get some new clothes or a new haircut. Nothing will take your pain away except time. But believe me looking good and feeling good is a great revenge. Good luck. And remember this to shall pass.
2007-03-06 18:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Teslajuliet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 08:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wikipedia- youll get lost in another world and start to question so many things on the world. You will forget about anything after you wikipedia yourself into a hole Then go to KFC mmm delicious
2007-03-06 18:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by dpileofashes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start over. Move if you have to. Get a fresh start. The past is the past. Clean up, and live life anew.
Good Luck.
2007-03-06 18:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be by yourself for bit..being lonely and alone are different. find out who you are..what you like to do.. go places with positive influence. dont go to bars..if your already down..they make it worse. good things will come to you if you do the right thing. dont be in a rush..take a deep breath and relax.. one thing about it..when things get bad enough..they gotta start getting better :) just know that you deserve good things in your life..you really do..expect them to come..your as good and deserving as anyone else in the world that has these things..settle for nothing less. things WILL get better..they always. do
2007-03-06 18:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by old wise one ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep hangin on. You'll make it through this. You already did for 4 months. Just keep yourself busy and don't think about it too much. Good luck and God bless!
2007-03-06 18:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a counsellor. Enough drugs and loser guys already. Watch yo drinkin too, dont wanna turn alcoholic.
2007-03-06 18:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ari J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont mean to sound religious, but I was in a similar situation and I started doing what I wanted for a change. I also started praying and its working.
Good look with that, cause I was in a abusive relation ship once and it sucks.
2007-03-06 18:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by Super Girl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Trying reading the Bible so you can be encouraged by God's word. Then God will show you something then you can be saved and feel the love of God which is so amazing. It will make all of those bad things not seem so bad any more.
2007-03-06 18:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by Josh D 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it takes alot of time to get out of the lifestyle you were in. i was in a crap relation for almost 10 years before i married my wonderful, understanding husband. patience , go out and meet new friends, chat on yahoo, have some fun
cheers
2007-03-06 18:20:25 · answer #11 · answered by happyday to you 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋