I have a very good friend. We know each other for years. We do everything together but recently, he came to know her girlfriend. Only by now have I found that I have a special feeling towards him! His girlfriend is a very nice girl but somehow I hate to see her. And I come to think of this question: am I a gay?
Now I am in pain. Sometimes I am thinking of ending up my life. When he happily talks the stories of his girlfriend...I know, we can no longer turn back. I don't think I am a gay, please help, I am lost.
2007-03-06 17:56:51 · 7 answers · asked by sadtidus t 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you are this sad,you are gay and need to come to terms with it.
2007-03-06 18:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are jealous of your friend's girlfriend does not make you gay. Of course, there's always the possibility, but most likely you are just jealous that she spends more time with your best friend than you do now. It's like those kids who get new born babies whom their mothers have to pay more attention to. It's not like those kids are retarded and have a crush on their mothers or something, now are they?
Unless you actually have some sort of lust to kiss your friend, do him in any sexual way, then by all means you're safe for now.
2007-03-07 02:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man your not gay , your just good friends and good friends are hard to find , it is just that you miss the time you did everything together it always happens , try to talk to him telling him that you dont do much together any more if he is a good friend he'll understand .
and whats with taking your life out cut this sh!t out nothing in life is worth taking your life out about.
peace out
2007-03-07 02:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you really are gay. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. I'm a well adjusted gay man and enjoy being so. Maybe try looking closer to where your heart is than wondering.
2007-03-07 03:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch 'BrokeBack Mountain' and 'Maurice'. That should help you sort things out.
I'm not being humorous, either.
The Lord bless you and keep you. No one is worth committing suicide over. There are other potential best friends, and other potential lovers out there, whichever you are in the market for.
2007-03-07 03:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay,Saditus!!!!
I know you are lost,,,,
Try to think of other things beside your friend..... Your friend has got a gal and why dont you try to find a gal at least you will know your self that you are not a gay!!!!
Wish you all the best
2007-03-07 02:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by harry d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel jelousy over his girl friend if you are straight?You should also look for your girl friend to keep you company.He will not get time for you now as he has a girl friend Please give him peace to enjoy his new found relationship.
2007-03-07 02:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by mukwathagicu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋