how to get over a break up??

Question

What are the best ways to not feel sorry for myself and not to blame faith on it? Bcs I believe in faith.

How to get over a break up in a positive way??

Answer 1

Write down all of the the things you enjoy, or enjoyed before the relationship...Even if it is only one thing. If you cant think of anything then volunteer your time somewhere fun or work a lot of overtime at work. The goal is to keep your mind fully occupied in a positive way. Thats what I've been doing and it seems that keeping a full schedule works for me. Some of my goals are to pay off some bills so that i can buy myself that new Lexus! I know that is hard and it takes a new courage daily, but just take each day a minute at a time, no faster than that.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Honey i so know how you feel, as you say you belive in faith you must believe that it was destined that you meet this person and then part ways, sometimes people come into out life for a reason and a season, look at the ways this person has enriched your life, and helped you grow . Forgive an forget, stop the blaming game it will take you no where, just be grateful that it happend cause better things are in store for you, as soon as you let go and no regrets, Mr right will walk into your life , i promise it will get better, just forgive, forget and no regrets.
Hugs

Answer 4

New years eve, my boyfriend of 14 years broke up with me. We have 2 children. Saying he was not the family type of guy, and that he wanted to date other people. It has only been 2 months and he has already found a new girlfriend. How have I gotten over it? Lots of faith that there is a reason for everything! And it just takes lots of time. Keep busy. And always have faith that no matter what you are doing, that you are doing the right thing! Keep true to yourself, be patient, and strong! Good luck! One more thing, do not feel sorry for yourself! Stand tall and proud! It is their loss!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

Exactly what you said is what u do. BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY YOU DO NOT feel sorry for yourself or blame fate. just don't do it.

Change your perception of it. this does take effort.. but it;s worth the investment because the payment comes direct to you.

Just start saying to yourself even if you don't believe it yet you have to convince your self first that:
BREAKING UP WITH HIM IS ONE OF THE BEST THINGS THAT COULD HAVE EVER HAPPENED TO YOU IN YOUR LIFE..

BECAUSE OF IT YOU CAN NEVER BE HAPPIER AND WILL BE INSTANTLY LINKED TO WHO WAS BORN TO DO NOTHING BUT MAKE YOU HAPPY.

REPEAT THIS EVERYDAY EVERY TIME YOU BEGAN TO FEEL BAD ABOUT IT. GET PLENTY OF REST LOTS OF SLEEP AND LOTS OF FUN NEW EXPERIENCES!

Answer 6

when we loose someone we love, our first response is to blame god, when we can't find anyone else to blame it on. but instead of that we need to be angry with the one who caused our grief. grief is one of the problems that seems to respond well to support from others. it is not god's doing because god gave man free will to do what he wants. god will never interfere with someones decision. basically its how we choose to handle our hurt that will determine how long we stay hurt. we can choose to let the crisis destroy us or we can deal with it, by prayer and giving it to god to deal with. we always have to keep a positive attitude even if our circumstances are bad. we will tend to feel sorry for ourselves, but that does little good. u get over it by going through the grief process, and expressing your hurt, and getting support from others who know what u are going through.

Answer 7

When people brake up with their mates they let their memory take over their life, meaning ... most of the time they are thinking of the good times, of the nice songs they both like, of the restaurants they used to visit.
When I brake up with somebody, every time one of those "nice" memories come to mind I think of the reason/s we broke up and problem solved. Time to move on to better things.