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Why does all men go for the very beautiful women even when MOST of them are selfish, superficial, and very demanding? We overlook all their character flaws because they are beautiful.

I have this problem too, I would love to have a beautiful woman who is a "10" however, most of them are all about "me, me ,me" 24/7 and they expect every guy in this world revolve around her. Can a beautiful self-centered, superficial, and demanding woman ever change to become an unselfish woman, non-materialistic, and patient woman? Do I have to wait until she turns 65 years old, when no other guys would like her anymore in order for her to change? It seems like thats the age when most of these beautiful women begin to "grow up"

I am refering only to physically beautiful women.

2007-03-06 17:15:10 · 10 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3 in Beauty & Style Makeup

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Unfortunately culture teaches women--through men's responses, primarily, that being beautiful is the only value they should cultivate, and that physical beauty is what will bring them attention and significance. You confess your own thinking plays into this viewpoint, since you would like to have a beautiful girlfriend. Because of all this, many--but not all--girls who happen to be beautiful begin to think they really are superior to others and deserving of more, simply based on their appearance. Change the culture and possibly you can change this situation. good luck.

2007-03-06 17:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by surlygurl 6 · 0 0

I agree...that beautiful women (not just women, but men too) are self-centered. Being a "10" is almost saying, "they're perfect". I would never want a person who's rated as a "10", because everyone else would think so. Then the attention gets to their heads (if they really feed into what others think of them) and that causes them to think "the world revolves around them". That becomes important to them...about how they look. Then other things to them doesn't really matter. ALSO...sometimes, we think beautiful people on the outside are SUPPOSED to be beautiful on the out. Yeah, it's sad that a lot of attractive people are all of the bad names you can think of. To look at a beautiful person is pleasing to the eye (when you don't know the person...you imagine this person with a beautiful personality). NOT!!! It's beacause YOU are focusing on THEIR beauty. A lot of people are the bad names you can think of...it's only the attractive ones that gets away with it! Simply because they're beautiful on the out! And' because their beauty has some kind of perfection...YOU think they should have the WHOLE PACKAGE. (Trust me...there are non-attractive people who are just as self-centered as the attractive ones)

2007-03-06 17:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Xoxo 2 · 0 0

Beauty is only skin deep.
Beautiful women disappoint everyone easily because they are mostly stupid.
They always think they are the most important thing on this planet.
They are not considerate because others care on them so much
A good-looking woman can easily allure men. However, they become tired of " that doll" so quickly.
A self- centered beauty will never become considerate, kind and unselfish unless her beauty fade.
You can wait but I think you would be out of patience

2007-03-06 17:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well you dont have to wait for "her" to turn 65 before changing, you can simple do the changing and date women who are beautiful on the inside, not only on the outside. i think that some beautiful women are self centered because they are accustomed to receiving the kind of attention youre talking about. just like you said, men overlook these beatiful womens "internal" flaws in exchange for their flawless exterior beauty. these women are very well aware of that fact and take advantage of their beauty. they know that many men will put up with their selfishness, their self centered, "snobby" attitude in exchange for the "pride" of dating an extremely beautiful woman. by the way not all beautiful women are self centered, only the ones who "feed" off of the compliments constantly!

2007-03-06 17:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by elcamie 2 · 0 0

i would love to have a chick but they all the same
you see a thug ****.a in a whip runnin the game
all the people on the net now know my name
they take a look at my page n they see the change
i'm still movin in the range wanna buy my own things
so i cant complain you know money bring everything
apart from love ..you see the difference when i'm in the clubs
gettin some groupie love ... representin the coast
no matter which chick i meet she takin off the cloths
a real playa drink it back n dont smocke ...catch
my ****** at the bar with the pint in the jug
while i'm in her house ******* her out on the rug
she love the way i tug spank her on the back in the tub
i get my dic.k sucked cause i'ma thug ..when i leave
avoid all my enemies cause they all around
like the leaves on a tree when they fall on the ground
i step on em n crush ...fuc.k a bitc.h ..if she a fake n a plus !!!
for real ..most women think they 2 hot !!!
not every ****.a in the game can be 2pac ..
find yourself the wrong b,itch n you fu.cked !!
with problems that keep on risin ...

2007-03-07 05:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by THUG LIFE 2 · 0 0

I've know any number of beautiful women who didn't really think of themselves as beautiful. Many of them are humble and sweet. Some are even shy.

And I do mean physically beautiful.

If I were you, searching for a soul-mate, I would focus less on physical beauty and look for the total person. Your perfect woman might be a little shorter and fatter than Cindy Crawford, and her hair might be a different color, but she would project a beauty of her own, much of it in her personality. I would think she would not be ugly in appearance and would not even be plain.

She would be a person you could spend your life with, however, and you won't have to wait until she's my age--65--to have her.

2007-03-06 17:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1 0

Not all women are self-centered. I'm beautiful and I'm no where near being selfish. In fact, I've been referred to more as a doormat. But, I thinks that's mainly because I want to be loved for what I do not for what I look like. Don't get me wrong, I love to be spoiled. But, I alos love to spoil. So not all (beautiful) women are self-centered.

2007-03-07 00:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Nana♥ 3 · 0 0

well sometimes people make them that way..when people r constantly calling you beautiful it does get 2 u..it raises self-esteem sooo much to a point where it can become into cockyness...i been called beautiful soo much it is starting 2 make me a lil tad bit conceited..i mean with comments such as"do u thank god everyday for being so beautiful?"...or "why are u sooo beautiful?"..yeah i guess i AM beautiful..lol..but never have i thought im better than some1 else..unless the person has an ugly personality..

2007-03-06 20:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

if you had people checking you out all the time, you'd be self-centered too. People like to be worshiped, it makes them feel better than you.

2007-03-06 17:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I GET MORE ATTENTION THAN I CAN HANDLE & I DO LUV IT MOST OF THE TIME, BUT IF I HAVE A GUY & HE TREATS ME RIGHT & GIVES ME ATTENTION, I'M A GR8 GIRLFRIEND & CARE MORE ABOUT HIS HAPPINESS THAN MINE. SO THERE R EXCEPTIONS!

2007-03-06 19:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by tupac4evaa 3 · 0 1

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