Why are beautiful women self-centered?

Question

Why does all men go for the very beautiful women even when MOST of them are selfish, superficial, and very demanding? We overlook all their character flaws because they are beautiful.

I have this problem too, I would love to have a beautiful woman who is a "10" however, most of them are all about "me, me ,me" 24/7 and they expect every guy in this world revolve around her. Can a beautiful self-centered, superficial, and demanding woman ever change to become an unselfish woman, non-materialistic, and patient woman? Do I have to wait until she turns 65 years old, when no other guys would like her anymore in order for her to change? It seems like thats the age when most of these beautiful women begin to "grow up"

I am refering only to physically beautiful women.

Answer 1

Harry
I'm wondering by the content of this post-- just how many truly beautiful women that you've known or have been close to ??

I have known far more than my share for I work with these people a lot in my career (I do professional commercial photography) and have found that there are basically no more in percentages that are this way than in any other "type" of people
There are those that are this way for sure---and I'm not denying this--- but you speak of this as if it is a given and that WHEN a woman is beautiful--- she just automatically IS THIS WAY---- I don't know where that comes from ----except the possibility that you have be thrown off by the common practice that they seem to have of tossing up this snooty little ---better than you are smoke screen that they use to PROTECT themselves from the unbelievable onslaught that they live under BECAUSE OF THEIR BEAUTY !! They have this as a defense mechanism to ward off the constant attentions that they get that they really don't want !!! When you get to know them in the very least--- most of this comes down and in some cases you find very lonely individuals behind those Attitude Screens--- because they've done so good of a job warding off the losers that they don't want-- the others are held at bay by this same thing-- and find them unapproachable and they wind up with no one !! Can't tell you how many times that truly beautiful women have confided in me that they have gone months without companionship simply because no one ever Approached Them to even talk about the possibility of getting together with them !!! So, you are working on some very flawed info here dude--- and you have a lot to learn about these gorgeous creatures---- they are human and a great deal of the time FAR MORE APPROACHABLE than you would evidently ever expect !!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Oh no! You are shallow! When will you men grow up and recognize the value of a good woman? When will you learn what beauty, love and respect really is?

If you had a "beautiful" perfect woman according to your standards, you would soon turn her into a tired, beaten, elderly, sad human being who always served your needs and who never had the world revolve around her.

The world does revolve around women!

we are born,

we have babies,

we raise babies,

our daughters have babies,

our son's marry and their wives have babies,

we sometimes raise our children and our children's children,

sometimes our children die before us,

sometimes we live alone long after the man that we love has died,

we become old,

and sometimes we die alone, having outlived our usefulness.

The most difficult job in the world belongs to woman. The birthing, care and raising of the children of the world.

We fill our time between the lines with supporting roles and work outside the home.

But nothing in the world is more important than the care and continuation of the family and the home.

Answer 3

You know, I don't think ALL physically beautiful women are self-centered. To be a complete human being, you also have to have intelligence, feelings, self-confidence, etc. If a woman has only good looks and none of the other important attributes of life, she must be feeling sad and unsure of herself. The attitude that appears to be self-centeredness is probably fear and a emotional wall put up to not let others into such a person's world.

Answer 4

Well not all beautiful women are like that. Take Audrey Hepburn for example. She was both beautiful outside and in. Most women that are like this though, are people who think they aren't pretty. She actually thought she was too skinny, with a bump on her nose, and large feet. I think these kind of people are the best to be around, because since they are unaware of their beauty, they are beautiful souls who never try to play something based on their appearance.

Answer 5

I think you are making a gross exaggerated generalization.
Some women are beautiful BECAUSE they are selfish........they spend too much time and money looking pretty.
Many average women might be considered beautiful if they put time and money in to being pretty. some beauty is all smoke and mirrors.
There are many beautiful women who are NOT superficial and self centered and even bright.
I am one . *smile*

Answer 6

Beautiful women are probably self-centered for the same reason that beautiful men are. They can get by on looks.

Answer 7

The "beautiful" people do not have the monopoly on being self-centered. There are people of all sexes, races, religions, nationalities, height, weight... that are self-centered.

At times we define someone as being a certain way because they do not see us as we perceive ourselves. Could what you think of as being self-centered actually be that they are not interested?

Answer 8

It is very hard to find someone who is physically attractive but also what you want intellectually. Who cares if they aren't a 10 but instead an 8. Make personality make up for that.
You are pretty shallow btw..

Answer 9

Why are rich men so self centered?
Because they have a large pool of potential mates to choose from, and so they can be picky or mean and still have plenty to choose from.

Answer 10

...they are very much afraid of losing their beauty and their main concern is to protect it by any means.