Is that consider cheating or it's just normal for men to have thoughts like that?
2007-03-06 17:03:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in News & Events ➔ Current Events
yes, men's mind wander. we're animals. it's only natural for us to want to spread our fear.
it's only cheating if he acts on them. and that is wrong. and that is where you should draw the line. good luck girl!
2007-03-06 17:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this will help, and I don't mean to sound preachy, but there is a scripture that says in Mathew 5:27, it says: You heard that it was said that "You must not commit adultery" But I say to you that everyone that keeps on looking at a woman, so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Having said that, I do realize that men and women will have sexual thoughts from time to time, but it would become a problem if they choose to dwell on these types of thoughts.
2007-03-07 01:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where does your marriage vowels fit into this situation?
According to the word of God, to have these thought you have already committed adultery and this is a sin.
Some men may think about it, but when it becomes a repercussion, then your marriage is in trouble. Male or female
will end-up wandering away from the woman/ or man you swore before God that you would keep these vowels.
2007-03-07 01:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by NJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we have basic animal instincts, this is going to happen whether they're wanted or not. As has been said before -
"The doe has her seasons, but the buck is perennial". That means that the buck (male) must always be ready to serve when a doe (female) comes into season. Those instincts are still with us, and it is only our civilization which prevents us from following them.
Sometimes.
2007-03-07 01:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not cheating. You can't control your thoughts, only your behavior. It's only human to have sexual thoughts about or be attracted to someone that's not your spouse. It's only cheating if you act on these thoughts.
2007-03-07 01:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its one thing for him to think it, it is another to be disrespectful of you and let you in on his little fantasies. Those thoughts a mature man would keep to himself. I would be pissed if my husband was letting me know he had sexual thoughts about other women. He can tell me he thinks Hally Berry is pretty, for example, but to blurt out stuff about some random women he sees on the street or at work or whatever, that I wouldn't think was appropriate for one second. Immature and disrespectful as hell!
2007-03-07 01:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they are just thoughts and he is not doing anything than to me that is not cheating. It also can depend on if it is a women whom he knows or just wanking off at models in magazines and on the web.
2007-03-07 01:10:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of them have more sense than to talk about having them, I doubt he would be human if he didn't think of many women that way. Unless he's acting on it, online or in person or on the phone, its not cheating. Just disturbing
2007-03-07 01:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by LatterDaySaint and loving it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thoughts mean absolutely nothing. It's actions that matter. And by the way, him telling you that he has those thoughts is an action. An action that he should keep to himself. It serves no purpose to tell others. It only causes problems, like the one your going through.
2007-03-07 01:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by dawnsdad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's normal, but it's not something he should then tell you about. Cheating has to start somewhere, and where there's a will there's a way.
2007-03-07 01:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋