i am 15 i have been hanging out w/ the same person since the 2 grade but she isnt liked that much and is really unpopular and all my other friends will not hang out w/ me if she is around plus were 2 totally different people i am the classic blonde cheerleader and she is into skateboarding and other things i sm not sure if i should still hang out with her or my other friends
PLEASE HELP ME!!
2007-03-06 16:22:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Friendship is about being friends through thick and thin. Take everything else out of the equation - looks, activities, other friends opinions and evaluate whether you like hanging out with this person, are they your friend? If the answer is yes - then you stick with them because that is what friends do.
2007-03-06 16:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by bigej65 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, classic blonde cheerleader and she still wants to be your friend? God, she must be a good friend indeed! Keep her close to you as possible, and you will never regrett losing her.
She's unpopular with who the ones you percieve as being popular. She popular with those who skateboard and do other things? Maybe they make fun of her because she is friends with you, you ever think of that?
Hey, listen this may seem like a very tough question and at your age its may be but I'll tell you this in the end of it all (after high school) true friendship is the most important. The two of you have been friends this long don't throw it away. I had a friend since 4th grade he was not popular in Highschool and I hung around the "popular" peeps but did not ever once ignored or stop being friends with him i'm 32 now and we are still best friends today and I don't even know where the "popular kids are today!
2007-03-07 00:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by kkobani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your MAIN reason to not hang out with this person is that your other friends won't allow it, then that is not a good reason. Anyone who would want you to treat someone else badly would treat you badly, and if you dump the old friend for the new ones, you will end up reaping what you sow.
If your MAIN reason is that you just don't have the things in common that you used to have, then that is pretty legitimate. As people grow up they change, and it sounds like your interests have separated. If you do decide to not hang out with her, please drop the friendship gradually since she hasn't done anything wrong. Or you might want to be upfront with her and say, "You know, we seem to be hanging out together out of habit, and I still REALLY like you and respect you and you are so cool, but it seems like we don't share many common interests anymore, and I do want to be with you sometimes, but maybe we could both try to spend some time with other people that share our main interests." Just see what you think would be the least painful for your old friend.
2007-03-07 00:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Cris O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will be your doctor one day -you dumb cheerleader! People in the real world think all cheerleaders are dumb arrogant social climbers. Ignore your friend like you really want to and maybe one day she will be too good for you. I guarantee that at least she will have never dumped you as her friend or then again maybe she wants to do just that - because she can sense that you are too stupid and full of yourself. Don't worry - she will be the doctor and you will be the stripper.
2007-03-07 00:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by LifeMatrix2012 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay friends with her, she is your true friend.
If your other so called friends don't want to be with you because she is around, they sound like vain snobs..those type of people are no good and arin't true friends. They don't care about others, only themselves, and they may find someone they like better and throw you out like yesterday's trash.
Don't dump your true friend for a bunch of low life snobs. You two have been friends for so long and it's so rare to find good friends.
2007-03-07 02:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Light Yagami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u should hang out with who u really care for. if u wanna be cool and foret about her then thats probably bad. good friendships don come along all the time. and woulnt it be kool for 2 different people to get alone. i dk just go with ur heart. lol i sound corny
2007-03-07 00:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by ŁỤĭŞ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be the cheerleader and she can still be the skater chick, you just need to find something that you both like doing. Dont diss your friend just because she doesnt do everything that you do, you are friends for a reason, just find something that can intertain both of you...
2007-03-07 03:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mama of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people grow apart, if you feel that you no longer have anything in common, then have a talk with your friend and mutually agree to go your seperate ways.
However, don't let your relationship with your new friends break your relationship with your old friends.
If you value your friendship with your old friend, then don't throw it away.
2007-03-07 01:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been friends with her that long your shouldnt be even thinking about not being friends with her just because some other people dont like her. your friends and friends always stick together.
2007-03-07 02:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by mrscandi22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and dont let other people infuence ur life. U need to be true to urself and not let others live ur life live it for u.
2007-03-07 00:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋