2007-03-06 16:08:45 · 13 answers · asked by NuncProTunc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
doctor can't fix the problem--can't take viagra.
2007-03-06 16:16:33 · update #1
Would this be adultery even if I use condoms?
2007-03-06 16:23:18 · update #2
They both will be hurt if I say no-have asked again.
2007-03-07 01:32:37 · update #3
I think you'd best take it real slow - things like that have a nasty habit of getting real complicated real fast. They'd be better off hiring a sex surrogate - someone neither of them knows and whom they're unlikely ever to see again - and see how it goes for one night. I knew two couples very, very well who had that idea - one couple did hire a surrogate; it worked out well, and about twice a year they do it again. Hubby watches while she gets her jollies. The other couple - well, let's just say they're not married anymore and the process, after she got it on with one of his friends - was pretty ugly. In a discussion with my professional colleagues (we do marital counseling as part of our jobs) I've learned of a dozen couples in our county who tried it - and except for the one couple I mentioned above, it has NOT worked out. Take it for what it's worth...
2007-03-07 03:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now thats a trusting friendship!
Are you crazy?? Noooo, do not sleep with her. Your going to open a can of worms that your going to wish you didn't open.
What if feelings develop? What if he gets jealous? You need to sit down and explain to your friend that there are many "things" out there that can help him and his wife still share intimacy, that he doesn't need a "fill in" to do it for him.
Besides, how well do you know this couple? This could be one of those trick questions, I'd back away slowly...and gracefully.
2007-03-06 16:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!
If you are a real friend you'd tell him to ask someone else!!
Real friends do 'some' things to help each other out, but this sounds more like a test to me..
He's testing your so-called friendship with him.
If this guy can't perform sex, there are thousands of other alternatives for him.
He can learn to use sex toys, his hands, fingers and tongue etc. He sounds like a really weird friend, and you'd be just as weird to accept
his invitation..
I'll guarentee it would end your friendship in the long run, and who needs his kind of friendship anyway.
2007-03-06 18:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's willing, then his misfortune is a win for you. However, you may want to suggest Viagra or Cialis.
2007-03-06 16:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would still be adultery,,,
No, you should not sleep with his wife,,,
He and she should stick to their marriage vows,,,
There are more then one way to satisfy a woman,,,
2007-03-06 17:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Tell him to buy a strap on and go to town on his wife. (they make some special for men and their bits)
2007-03-06 16:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like B.S. to me. I'm sure your not the only taking up the task if this is ok with her.
2007-03-06 16:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by jjjjj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you shouldn't!!!! And if you use a condom or not is irrelivant, having sex with another man's wife IS ADULTERY!!!
2007-03-06 16:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you shouldn't, you should be a friend to him and go with him to a doctor to have his little problem fixed, thats it, thats what a friend would do
2007-03-06 16:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no don't go there. worst case scenario you/she will fall for each other....husband will want to kill you both or watch. best case scenario....there is none.
2007-03-06 16:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by formerlylunesta@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋