I just got Divorced and my exhusband want his cake and eat it too.
2007-03-06 16:00:54 · 16 answers · asked by Nina C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont give him any cake!!!! Tell him he is on a DIET!!!!!
2007-03-06 16:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by karena k 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband to shove it. That he had the cake and now it is on the top shelf where he can't reach it. No one should lower their standards to feel humiliated or abused. If your husband has someone else...let him go. If you love yourself you can do better and you will be stronger in the long run.
Things to do:
Try something new each week
Go golfing
Read a new book
Add a new friend to your phone
Answer other people's problems on Yahoo Answers! (j/k)
Go to the gym
Get a new hair cut
Take a new job (or second job)
Do something you'd love but your husband would hate
Go to a chick flick by yourself and eat all the popcorn
Flirt with the security guard
Make up one on your own
Mostly live your life because you don't know how long you have and you dont want to waste your time whining about some guy.
PS. If you "love" him and you want to work it out you need lots of counseling, if he won't go then you know you are done. But it only works if he wants it too. email what you decide :)
Good Luck!
2007-03-07 00:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by wicked1too 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up your sugar to him anymore! I am also in the process of a divorce have been seperated for 7 months. Yes its hard to let go after years of marriage it just doesn't happen over night. Its gonna take some time. My soon to be ex still has the nerve to ask me to bed! And he has a girlfreind! He also wants his cake and eat it too. Best thing to do is go on with your life, move ahead. Believe in your self and your faith.
2007-03-07 02:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut all ties ( thats what I had to do ) then this guy at work says you need 1 year to recover for every 4 years u were marreid. I was married 8 years so thats 2 years and im almost one year already! anwyays - just let time heal it and if u keep talkin to him, it will only prolong everyghing ( Unless u have to tlak to him cuz u have kids). its hard but waht can u do .
2007-03-07 00:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't allow him to go in and out of your life, because if u don't distance yourself, u will stay hurt, in order to get over someone u have to stop all contact. as long as there is a relationship with the ex, u won't be able to go out and meet anyone else. u got to get angry at the one who hurt u, stick up for yourself, and have a higher self worth, why carry on with the ex, and keep your hopes up, see him for who he is and what he did to u.
2007-03-07 08:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some hobbies, some new friends, an interesting job and kep busy. ignore him.
The Syko Ward
2007-03-07 00:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by The Syko Ward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go to a bakery since he wants cake, maybe someone there can help him.
2007-03-07 00:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your ex-husband to piss off. Then get under a new boyfriend/boytoy/whatever.
2007-03-07 13:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they all do. Just ignore him and find a friend to hang out with.
2007-03-07 00:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ex jump in a lake and you find a nice man
2007-03-07 00:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. He's your EX. He does not get anything from you that you are not willing to give.
2007-03-07 00:07:24 · answer #11 · answered by jjjjj 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋