well.i am very calm and quite and like to be independent...nd have very few good friends....
2007-03-06 15:56:26 · 13 answers · asked by anjani p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sad really, The whole "self-esteem" crap they tried to push on parents to use with their kids "Your Special" 2+2= 5 / Good answer little Johnny but a next time try 4" etc... (i know bad examples hard for me to put it in words) but this attitude has had a negative effect were by making people believe they are the center of the universe that everyone is there for them, everyone should be there for them to serve them at little johnny's convince and whim. Also, by not teaching them how o cope with situations not in there control or to there liking etc.... I hope you get what I'm trying to say here. Parents love your kids don't beat them but have tough love and teach them true life lessons. God Bless
2007-03-06 16:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by kkobani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you take it. If a person passes a rude remark over you, you can take it in folloowing manners:
1> Personal offence which is always disturbing;
2> He's jealous,
3> You can conclude that he is ignorant and not wise enough to understand your capabilities and stop worrying about it;
4> You can ask yourself, 'Is there any problem with me?' Use those remarks as a tools for cross examining yourself;
5> Who cares? I just don't have enough time to think about it.
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2007-03-07 10:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally agree that people are quite rude, selfish and impersonal in society today. But it also depends on geographically where you are located. In today's society there are so many kinds of stress. And geographically, if you should travel to where everyone is in there own bubble, getting where they have to go, compared to someone that lives somewhere in a remote countryside, you will see the difference. But always remember don't allow someone else's behavior to change your quiet and calm personality. If you meet someone rude, just shake your head and walk away. And if you meet someone nice, pass it on. Peace.
2007-03-06 17:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Vivian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...your right, alot of people are so self-indulgent, and rude that its hard to be nice to others you come across sometimes.
I used to manage a cafe, and it was inside of a covenient store...we'd have people come to the door and scream to turn the pumps on because they were trying to get gas (they activated that button, we didn't) , or come in and get pissed off because they couldn't find the beer. (we were a dry county) Or pissed off at us because we only had two bathrooms, and they were full. Like we had control over that issue.
But I worked there for 5 years, I become very good at sarcasm, and overlooking these types. I'd just kill them with kindness....and if that didn't work, I'd use the sarcasm to take them off at their knees kindly...lol They'd end up looking a fool, and I'd have a smile on my face when they left....then mumble under my breath..."Idiots..."
So....yea...your right......
2007-03-06 16:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r right dat now a dy's people r rude but not all.nd ofcourse it depends on ur manners too.v shud treat people in d way they r.if they r selfish u shud also towards them nd if they r helping then u shud hv same attitude towards them.
2007-03-06 16:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident it actual in case you hadn't did that or seen which you does not be unhappy. As they say each and all of the deeds we've finished we could desire to continuously pay off in this beginning. Sorry i'm not that sturdy in writing it in Hindi i will examine yet Im uncertain if I spell it perfect :D so each and all of the chuffed issues take place and the sorrowful issues take place in this beginning we could desire to continuously pay off all of it.....
2016-10-17 11:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right. people are very selfish and rude nowadays more than ever. my parents and grandparents tell me how people were decades ago and nowadays kids are the rudest ever. they dont respect there parents or elders. and people cuss everywhere! its sad really.
2007-03-06 16:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
USUALLY DEPEND SOME FIND THEM INTRESTING OR POLITE WHEREAS SOME FIND THEM VERY RUDE ILLMANNERED ETC.PEOPLE HAVE DIFFERENT FRAMES OF MIND AND SEE OTHER PEOPLE FROM DIFFERENT ANGLES.SOME NAGHTY CHILDREN MAY FIND THE OTHER NAUGHTY CHILD PLEASING BUT THE GOOD DISCIPLINED ONES WOULD FIND THE CHILD IRRITATING AND RUDE .
2007-03-07 03:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by TARUSH B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are selfish & rude but it is may be not for your manner.may be the circumstances make them rude.don't worry.for life one good friend is enough,you have more.enjoy it.
2007-03-06 17:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dighi_143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its tru ur not imaging it
no all pple are like that
u have to giv e them a chance
i dont think for 15 im rude
i think im respectful to real pple
2007-03-06 16:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋