im only 15, and my bestfriend is 13 and thinks she pregante, she has been with her bf for 2 years, and so yea they had sex, and he's an idiot and came right inside of her. and she wont ask her mom for help, and so we where thinking to call a cab tomarow after school and going down to planned parenthood to get the morning after pill, because this just happedn yesterday. is this a good idea?? i need some adive!
2007-03-06 15:52:28 · 25 answers · asked by Bongo! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
At 13 you need to talk to mom or someone of adult status. You two alone cannot handle this. I would want my daughters to come to me instead of taking a drug I know nothing about. What happens if she takes it and has a reaction to it. How does mom know what to tell the ER doctors or EMT's?? You need to involve someone else and she obviously needs to get on birth control.
2007-03-06 16:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by punkin_eater26 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CALL Planned Parenthood first. They can tell you whether or not they can provide the morning-after pill for your friend and whether you need an appointment, or parental permission.
It doesn't matter that her boyfriend came inside her. A woman having unprotected sex can still get pregnant even if a man withdraws before he comes. She is also at risk for sexually-transmitted diseases.
I agree with the folks who say that 13 is too young to be having sex. Just because she had sex doesn't mean she has to keep on having sex.
BUT if she chooses to continue having intercourse with her boyfriend, BOTH of them should make an appointment with Planned Parenthood to discuss birth control methods. If a young man is going to have sex he needs to step up to the plate and take responsibility along with his partner to prevent pregnancy and diseases. Otherwise, he's not worth it.
2007-03-08 10:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by vtmima 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have heard mixed things about the morning after pill. before you do that, i would discuss it with the people at planned parenthood. Although 13 is VERY young to be having sex no matter how long she has been with her boyfriend, i understand being young and in love. i was 15 the first time i had sex. no matter what..if she gets the morning after pill or not...i would go to planned parenthood and talk to them about it. Its a big deal! If she just had sex yesterday though, its too early to know if shes pregnant. DEFINETLY way to soon to know. And personally..she needs to ditch the boyfriend with no brain :D
2007-03-06 15:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs her parents if she will not do it, then as her friend you SHOULD! Now not tomorrow now no matter the time. She might even "hate" you for it, at least for awhile but she is your BF then you should be willing to make this sacrifice for her read this pick up the phone call her and convince her or call her parents NOW!
she has been with her bf for 2 years, and so yea they had sex.
That's disturbing that you even said this! Because she was with him for 2 yrs, so what she's 13. Way to young and to stupid(as is all 13 years old, no offense)to be having sex.
2007-03-06 16:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by kkobani 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First things first..Planned parenthood doesn't do walk-ins you have to make an appointment. Second she needs to do one of three things: 1)stop having sex;2) get on birth control;3)make him wear a freaking condom!! She's way too young to have to deal with this. She can make an appointment with either her family doctor or planned parenthood and get birth control. Doctors have a confidentiality oath, as well as law, so they can't discuss anything with her parents.
Mostly it sounds like she might not be ready to deal with the consequences that sometimes come along with sex. She needs to do some thinking before she has sex again.
2007-03-06 16:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by makalas_mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to talk to her mom yourself.Plus if it only happend yesterday there is a good chance she's not pregnant.Sometimes it takes a few tries to get pregnant.The best bet would be to go to her mom,you would want her to do it for you in the long run.Plus,the morning after pill and anything to do with abortion can be dangerous,make sure you know all the facts about what you are getting into.My friend died from complications of the morning after pill.GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-06 16:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by robyn r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldnt do that just because its killing something that didnt ask to be brought into this world. Your friend needs to get on the pill if she is having sex. I was 14 when I started having sex and I wasnt ready, it only made teenage years harder, but everyone has to make there own mistakes. She needs to tell her mother whats going on, but I can understand being scared about it. I would suggest her giving it up for adoption but thats just me. I know that a 13 year old is going to do what she wants to do anyways but thats what I would do.
2007-03-06 19:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mama of 2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a very good idea! A 12 year old is not financially or emotionally ready to handle a child, consider the alternatives, she would have to drop out of school though she can't legally work more then 15hours a week due to child labor laws and that's far from enough money to support an infant, college would be darn near unattainable she would not be able to go out and party and spend time with friends because she would have another she would have to take care of first- it would be her top priority she would move to second and so on.
2007-03-06 16:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Shawna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend may not be pregnant yet but she is at risk of becoming pregnant, if she is not ready to become a mother, getting the morning after pill is a good idea.
Her boyfriend may be an idiot, but what is she for having unprotected sex at her age with an idiot? :-/
2007-03-06 17:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES! there is no way she wants a baby at 13 and there is NO WAY she should be having sex at 13! the fact that you cant even spell pregnant is enough evidence (no offence) that young kids should not be having sex at all!
Please take her to a doctor ro something get her the morning afterpill, just do what ever it takes to make sure she doesnt have a baby. Ihope ths is a big lesson to all you young kids out there!
2007-03-06 15:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋