2007-03-06 15:33:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
the problem might be on you....
2007-03-06 15:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by BB2791 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Relax, no girl "turns" lesbian, they just are and because of societal cruelty and standards, don't realize it until later. Don't feel insulted that lesbians like you. The way I see it, it's a compliment. These girls/women liked you so much that they were able to temporarily, somewhat, at least, ignore their natural non-attraction to men. The two boyfriends I had before I came out were guys I dated because they were/are tremendously sweet men with wonderful personalities that I wanted to spend time with.
To be cliche: it's not you, it's them :)
2007-03-07 06:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Emily H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take it personally. Many are doing it these days just because it's now so acceptable in our culture that apparently it has become a fad of sorts. In fact, many women hate men so much that they no longer want to be dependent on them for anything, I mean absolutely nothing including having and raising children.
2007-03-06 15:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is denial. Tow girls I knew had done the same thing. The good thing about it is that you get to meat there interesting friends who are also into experimentation so if you play your cards right you could have what every man fantasizes about. Always look for the good in any situation.
2007-03-06 15:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by Roger89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't turn lesbians, but they are born that way. Due to peer pressure, they try to be straight, then they through your nurturing nature find their true selves.
It is good for them to be true to their true selves. Two of my ex-girlfriends are also lesbians now.
2007-03-06 15:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Cause it's always who they've been they just now realizing that maybe. They came out of the darkness to the light.
2007-03-06 15:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by Georgia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think is just casualties............In high school I had 3 boyfriends, not counting my HUBBY of course, that turned out to become priests.
DO NOT LET THIS AFFECT YOU.
2007-03-06 15:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by MARIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were lesbians first and didn't know it.
2007-03-06 15:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly cuase they reached the time when they figure out that they're lesbian? time of figuring out who you are?
2007-03-06 15:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by wintermag52 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps some of their prior experiences with males before you were bad.
2007-03-06 15:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by Siren 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude, cuz after being with a guy they realize that weiner sucks!
2007-03-06 15:35:49 · answer #11 · answered by coleykim69 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋