Have you ever had to deal with a woman or a man that ......?

Question

didn't care about your feelings not to mention everybody else's,and they REALLy hurt some people all around them? What did you do about it,(if you did do something) and did that person ever bother you and other people ever again?

I once had an ex-female housemate whose attitude really "stunk"...her thoughts about me, were "she's too stupid" to "actually comprehend anything,like my friends and I.!!".".Men are too stupid to realize that I am going to "get them" and I will trick them into marrying me, I can ask my father for anything..and he will automatically give in to me...my sister is "sooo stupid" ,she gave me this birthday present...but, I don't want it..do you? She doesn't know what I want or like..and I prefer the more expensive perfume..not the "Cheap stuff"!(to which, I took it...because it was brand new, and my ex-housemate didn't want it at all!)

"all men are idiots!"" Women are always superior to me!" "I asked for more money than the rest of my co-workers ,(and I don't do that much for my boss,) and my boss pays me a higher salary!"

(She also told her ex-boyfriend about me...(things made up,cu'z she didn't think well of me...not knowing me, too well!)and more!etc...

What's ironic about this ex-housemate..is that she joined this popular group to become more outgoing and less shy...(it is the group called the Society For Creative Anachronism) I have long wondered if people had actually liked her....because she is sooooo rude, condescending...and obnoxious...and I don't think that ALL of those people in that group are bad news...ya know? I really wonder if she has gotten much worse! LOL!!!(What a shame!) tch, tch!!! :-(

Answer 1

yes, they r terrible.

Answer 2

Anne, it sounds like you have a lot to say... why don't you just say it?

There are many people through life that you will run across that are psychopaths.

The word has a much different meaning outside psychology circles (such as psychopath killer) but it is not all that uncommon and one can function real well in society and be a psychopath where it is hard to detect them.

This is a person having no concerns for the feelings of others. They fool you because they know they are different and want to fit in so any emotion they express of caring for others is learned by observation and simply repeated.

The biggest key to know these people are as kids... they are the ones that like to hurt animals. People mistake this for being cruel or mean, but it is just a total lack of caring of other's feelings.

Answer 3

I have been in that same particular situation and I realized that I had to seperate myself from that person because it only brought along heartache and unneeded problems. I learned to deal with that individual on an association and no longer a friendship. Eventually, when I withdrew myself from their lives,I could breathe easier and they finally realized what they were doing to people that cared for them. Sometimes the only way to teach a person is by stepping back and allowing them to recognize their own tribulations and how it affects the ones around them. I think you should try to express your feelings and see how that works. If nothing changes, you have to make the decision of whether or not this is a person you even want to be associated with. If not, let them go and move on.

Answer 4

Yes I had one person that thinks he is Oh So Cool and liked to pick on me and then laugh. He would come around with somthing broken and talk me into fixing it and then not offer to pay for the fix even if I had to put new parts in. He was always acting like a A ss and I finaly could not take anymore and told him to leave.
He came back and from then on I would do for him as he did to me.
I sure hope the last time I caust him to loose his car because when he called I told him no was the last time I ever see him

Answer 5

Yeah I've come across a few people like that. It's like a tons of bricks they carry and try to make the rest of us miserable.
First don't let what they say, bother you. Ignore them if you must but at all times, be nice. Maybe try a smile and they may break and smile back.

Answer 6

There is thing called don't let your kindness become your weakness.

People vcan help, but tag on when your nice and it makes you wonder at times do they really care about your feelings when you say no or do they respond favorably.

This is a Doggy Dog World and that has to be dealt four of akind to win!

Answer 7

The important thing is to tell the person immediately how you are feeling, or hurting from his/her behavior. If you let is go, he will continue to walk all over you and the people he hurts. If telling him doesn't help, then he should no longer be a part of your life. One thing I learned recently is you have to be open and honest with your feelings and people will respect that.

Answer 8

I told them don't even go there with me, I have no problem speaking my mind and they will most definitely get their feelings hurt. They didn't say anything, they looked at me and I looked at them and they left me completely alone. How others handled them I don't know and I lost no sleep over it.

Answer 9

Are you talking about my mother-in-law?
What did she do now?

Just stop talking to them its for the best(for drama free days & holidays too)!
Besides the more leway you give these type of folks the more they sh*t on you, I mean arent you tired of it!!!!!

God luck & stop bein some ******* door-mat

Answer 10

At first, it is really depressing. So I gather myself and does him the same. He deserves the same treatment. I am aloof and apathetic when it comes to him.

Answer 11

It is sad, but try to tell them how you feel, and if that doesn't help stay away from them.