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please don't say this is gay and i outa just deel wit it, i really need some sort of help. thanks, here it is.

I’ve had the worst week of my life, I know you might take this as a way to get attention hell maybe it is, I’m not sure. All my life I’ve kept quiet pretty shy, had some g/f flings but one g/f had stuck with my through everything else. Always helped me out, was the hand when I fell, I’m not saying she was perfect far from it. I knew she had her… adventurous times when she would go out and cheat on me. Sure this is fine I’ve delt with it for literaly all my life. 6 days ago she tried to commit sucide, she tried to cut her wrists right there in front of me, at the time I thought she was only kidding, just fake tears. Her sister ran in and stopped her just when she had started to draw blood. I couldn’t do anything I was just sitting there helpless with a shocked look. Her parents don’t know no one does, in other questions I had mentioned her as my ex, but after she had called

me we kind of got back together. 4 days ago she called me crying that she was going to go to Cobble Stone or something down in jersy maybe… idk I couldn’t understand her that well. Her mom had found out she was cutting herself and doing drugs. I knew this and after being asked about it from her and my family I denied it, always playing along. For the past week ive just felt so helpless, 2 days ago I met back up with an old crush and we’ve been chatting and last night it got…deep like relationship deep. My g/f that tried to kill herself had left me when I was at my lowest. Now she is going through her lowest but I just can’t stand her and her habbits, I feel so helpless, I’m a little hesitant in saying this but I cried for the first time since I was 10, (15 now). She knows a lot of people and can and have had spread the worst rumors that have stuck with me today. I was kicked from school earlier in the year so my old crush and me have just been emailing lately and chat rooms. So…

what should I do? Is there anything to do? And why the hell am I feeling so helpless? I know I’ll pry get flamed out my *** for this but at least one serous answer please

Answer 1

OK here is your serious answer .your friend needs help the kind of help you cant help her with . she needs professional help . if i where you i would let her parents know what she is doing . sure she may not like you very much after telling them . but a real friend would do anything and everything possible to see she gets help . my own son dated a girl who would cut herself . i advised him to do the same as i am telling you to do . he did not do it. the girl all most succeeded in killing herself after taking a full bottle of prescriptions pills. my son walked away from this girl because he could not deal with her problems. thankfully she did get the help she needed. but anyways i am just trying to tell you this , if you care about her and i believe you do tell her parents. i know that seems uncool to you . but trust me one day she will thank you . good luck to you.

Answer 2

There really isnt anything you can do, she needs help bad. I would tell her parents everything you know so they can get her some help. She may hate you for it now, but in the long run she will understand. Tell her that you are doing this for her own good, if she understands be there for her... if she gets pissed off, then give her time.. back off. She will come back to you when she is ready. I'm not talking in a g/f way, a friend way. I dont think she is stable enough to be dating anyone right now. And as much as it hurts you to see her going through this, its not good for you either.

Answer 3

This is a lot for people to deal with here. First let me say you must move on and stay away from this girl who is doing the drugs, cutting, etc. Do NOT feel guilty! You can't help her and you are being pulled down by it. You are so young. Please don't ruin your life. Try talking to your school counselor about some of your problems. You need to think about yourself, not someone else's probs. Her parents should know. They can get her help and she needs to do that.

Answer 4

The one girl needs some serious help. I hope she can get herself straightened out. You need to not worry about having a serious relationship. You are young. Try to start working on your education. Maybe you can take GED classes. Work on your future. Don't "fall thru the cracks" as they say. You can be some child's idol some day. Have yourself a good and joyful life!

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Turn around and run like H E L L, its the best for both of you. Seek counseling if your not OK with yourself for doing it. Sometimes 2 people just bring out the worst in each other.

Good Luck!

Answer 7

this sounds like a very toxic relationship. You need to step a way and take time to heal yourself. BEFORE you move on to another relationship. It sounds like this is more of a convenience type thing, and that you are there for each other when it is easy for you. She needs help. Good luck

Answer 8

I am sorry, remember one thing my friend, we are all responsible for our own actions, if she is hurting herself, she has a problem, not you, but you should be honest with her parents, always tell the truth, she needs help.....dont hate her, instead pray for her, and forgive her.....Jesus loves you

Answer 9

You really shouldnt be with a girl who is so f#%!&* up. You are too young. You could right a soap opera. Go on with your life. Wow!!!

Answer 10

you are not responsible for this girl.
she is into drugs and cutting herself.
you shouldn't protect her when her parents ask about what she is doing. she is in trouble and it is her parents job to take care of her, not you!!!