My bf of almost 8 years has gone from our relationship into another one already. He cheated on me now they are engaged. Do you think that he has issues with being alone?
Jumping from one serious relationship to another seems a bit foolish to me. Has anyone experienced anything like this before with other men? You would think that you would have a break in between to be single wouldn't you?
2007-03-06 15:10:47 · 9 answers · asked by Jasmina 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Jumping from one relationship to another is never a good practice but most people do it. It's important to reflect on the lessons learned from the failed relationship so you can have an even better one the next go around. As far as your ex is concerned, WHO CARES?! Think about how lucky you are to be free of all his weird issues and insecurities. She can have him! He's only going to talk, act, and get on her nerves just like he did yours! Good riddance to bad rubbish! Let him aggravate, lead on, and disappoint her! You are now FREE to get the love you want and deserve! Whenever you find yourself thinking of him picture a huge stop sign in your mind and follow it up by yelling out loud, "Who cares!", and replacing the thought with a scene of you having the life and love you truly deserves. Good Luck and much love!
2007-03-06 15:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by Meems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, but this also goes for women. They are co-dependent and need someone in their lives to fulfill their happiness. There are so many people who have married 2-3 times, with this mentality, they can not live alone..I really feel sorry for these people!
2007-03-06 15:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would nt say guys only, my wife and I were married for 18 years, she had an affair and left me for this guy, I have been single for almost 3 years, God gives me the strenght, everyday......Jesus loves you
2007-03-06 15:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now she is just a toy to him .All men want to be taken care of and eight years together isn't something he is going to forget.Here is one of the biggest mistake us women make, we give our men to the other women .He cheats and we tell them to get out its over.So they go back to the other women.
2007-03-06 17:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a similiar case before... was dating with this particular girl for abt 4yrs. Fall out with family coz of her too, due to racist problem... Anyway, we both moved out and stayed together... Decided to ROM but she wasn't qualified due to that she was already married...
2007-03-06 15:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey life goes on - no need to stop when a relationship ends....... some people do live alone all their life and have no relationship, get over it - get on with your life now
2007-03-06 15:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by boonoora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf is like this too. he's not mentally over the last one and expects me to think he loves me. it also doesn't help when he said he'd love all the ladies in his life forever. It doesn't make me feel special.
BUT to answer your question..........they don't want to be alone!!
2007-03-06 15:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dude got mad probs!!!! be glad u are rid of such a needy man.
2007-03-06 15:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i THINK he has a problem period.
2007-03-06 15:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋