Ok, so one of my friends got into a fight with my other friend. Let's call them.......Sarah and Alexis. (I'm not going to say names here.) So then Alexis sends me an email saying how much she hates Sarah. I'm in a really bad mood, and I'm also kinda mad at Sarah for some reason, so I type up a nasty hate letter about Sarah, because we got into a fight a long time ago (I could never forget,) just to get out all my bad feelings and stuff, so I really didn't mean it. BUT.........I accidentally sent it to Sarah! So she read it and replies via email telling me "Ok. well if I'm such a terrible person like you said, then mabye we shouldn't be friends anymore." I really really still want to be her friend, but I didn't at all mean the stuff that I said in the email, and I totally regret even typing it in the first place! I'm so upset, that I started getting all shaky, and throwing up and stuff. I'm just miserable, and I know that she hates my guts now....Is there anything I can do to say sorry?
2007-03-06 15:05:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be straight with her. Tell her that you never came to terms with the fight you both got into and that the fight she and Alexis got into stirred up your feelings from the fight you and she were in and you were venting but had no intentions of sending it. I can't say that it will bring you back together, but the only possible way to get your friendship back is to clear the air... including talking about the argument you got into previously. If you can both do that, it will bring you even closer together. In the future, type your own email address in the email letters you don't really intend to send.
2007-03-06 15:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no theres nothing u can do other than to admit what u did and accept the consequences. U were not a true friend and she found out. its not that big of a deal actually. if u really want to fix things (because u want here friendship, not because u feel guilty she found out u were talking behind her back) tell her that u were upset at whatever she did and u were just venting out Ur frustrations but u didn't mean it and u are genuinely sorry.
2007-03-06 23:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say you are sorry and that even though it was an accident sending her the e mail that you are glad your true feelings are out in the open now, and that now you may be able to put all the bad feelings behind you. then leave it up to her. i think in time she will forgive you, just be honest, but avoid talking about what happened in the past, look at it as a chance for a fresh start.
2007-03-06 23:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can say you're sorry until your blue in the face but it's up to Sarah whether or not she wants to continue a friendship with you. What's done is done and now you have to suffer the consequences.
2007-03-06 23:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her if you and her are the friends and you guys care for each other so tell her it was an accident . so why not just talk
by the way you did send it to her fo real
(if you did YOU'RE in TROUBLE)
2007-03-06 23:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by real n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me, too before. Buy her a gift to say sorry, make something for her, do something for her you guys used to do, or just say plain old sorry! and hope she forgives you.
2007-03-06 23:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, Ur screwed. If she is really your friend she will forgive you if you tell her the truth and are willing to earn her trust again.
2007-03-06 23:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by thetachi136 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly how it all went down. Either she will understand or she wont. be honest and dont make excuses for what you done.
2007-03-06 23:16:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you met it about another "sarah" i mean if shes really your friend shell understand...
2007-03-06 23:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by soccer_chicka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you ment it, or you would not have wrote it.
S"ounds to me like you are sorry you got caught . . .
2007-03-06 23:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by Say What? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋