when you catch your man perving at another woman - how does it make you feel when he says he wasnt, but hey he did it right in front of you and still denies it, what would you consider perving and just looking
2007-03-06 15:01:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they all look and perve at another woman, its natural we do it to.
2007-03-06 15:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by boonoora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind whether he "perves" or "looks" ... as long as he's not drooling over another female in front of me he is entitled to look - i mean i do. Just because we are in a relationship doesn't mean we all of a sudden stop appreciating the beauty of others around us. I look - he looks, as long as its "look but don't touch" we don't have a problem.
2007-03-06 23:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Smiley One 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is both,,,I have seen mine do both ,,but it depends on the circumstance,,and the mindset of the man,,,If he is a player,,,he is lusting,,,there is no problem with a man or a woman admir'ng beauty it comes to both men and women,,,but do it respectfully,,,that is we are still living and breathing humans that admire the human body,,,I see other ladies that are beautiful,,and it will capture the eye,,,but it is only out of admiration,,,the same for a man.
2007-03-06 23:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Fairlady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perving?
I guess I need to know what perving is before I can give an answer.
2007-03-06 23:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lets say you lock your hubby in a closet for the rest of his life, then you can say my hubby never looks at other women and he is home with me every night.
Lets say you don't, you can say sure my hubby looks at other women but he comes home to me every night.
Which sounds better to you?
While your thinking your hubby is thinking that the passing hottie is a 10, he is obviously thinking your an 11.
I think it is normal & healthy for both to look.
I'm sure he wouldnt deny it if he wouldnt get in trouble for it. If its a trust thing, what are your reasons for not trusting him? Is it because of past men who have cheated? Is it because of what you think about other men that you look at? Is he a cheater? Are you unhappy with the way you look?
You have to have good reasoning when trying to govern someone elses actions.
2007-03-06 23:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by mark 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men do look at women. I think it is an ancient thing built into the psyche. And guess what? Women look at MEN, but they are just better at it. I have sat in the mall and watched women do it, they do not turn their head, just their eyes. Men tend to turn the head and it is more obvious. I have discussed this with women and they have admitted it.
2007-03-06 23:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell ya a little secret.....BOTH men and women look at others. Now....here is a little wisdom from a old fart....it does not matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home.....and ALWAYS remember....don't settle for a burger when you have steak at home.
2007-03-06 23:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's looking..
Guys can't help but look.. its a guy thing.. built-in their chromosome.. as long as he doesn't touch what he's looking then you should be fine..
He's denying it coz he feels guilty which means he's into you..
Don't get mad..
After all, he's with you..
2007-03-06 23:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by crushmybones 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who is he going home with? Don't you ever look at good-looking guys? He just denies it because you make more of it than it is. Relax, honey.
2007-03-06 23:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by Susan H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A man will always look. That is the way we are wired. Give him what he needs in bed and out and he won't stray.
2007-03-06 23:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jack P 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋