long story short, my problem is, my (formerly best) friend thought i called my dear friend a homo. when i really said Lomo. now she is constantly calling her a homo! it really hurts me on the inside, and i dont know what to do. see, it is like your friend calling your other friend a homo infront of you and behind their back. i cant even get her to stop! what do i do? not being friends with her isnt an option.
2007-03-06 14:12:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anon omus 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
her name is Lomo, its her nickname! not yours!
2007-03-06 14:21:43 · update #1
her nickname is Lomo.
2007-03-06 14:26:09 · update #2
You want to be friends with someone who continues to hurt you....by abusing your friends? What does that say about you?
Maybe you need to think about what kind of person you are...and what kind of person this friend is....true friends don't try to hurt each other, care about how you feel, and can talk things thru . Not sure you really are good friends, but you seem to feel you need this person. Why?
I think you need to get more self-reliant...and stand on your own principles...and find friends that agree with them. You know this person is wrong, but are unwilling to confront it. There will be a lot of things in your life you will need to confront...so now is a good time to start being your own person.
2007-03-06 14:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i understand how you feel my opinion is you talk to your friend and tell her that you did not say homo but you called her lomo i hope your friend trusts you because when you explain this to her,you together with her can avoid the pain caused by the friend who claims you said homo.Try and avoid what she says because you know from deep down your heart what you said. She might be up to something maybe wants to break your friendship with your friend.Hope your friend believes you didn't call her homo because if she doesn't you might be falling into the trap set by the lady claiming you said homo.
Need to watch out.
2007-03-06 19:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sirah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well what you can do is talk to her, and explain to her that you didn't call her a homo but a lomo, if that dosen't work what i might have done is just take the blame and say you didn't mean it and you are very sorry
2007-03-06 14:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jomama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap her a couple times and tell her to snap out of it.. tell her that you did not call her a homo you called her a lomo and that how would she feel if someone would call her a homo well just try to make her understand that you are not going to put up with it
2007-03-06 14:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Aracely 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell her to stop. Tell her that u said Lomo and that you want her to stop becuz you like that person that she is making fun of. Why isnt Not bein friends with her an option?
2007-03-06 14:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to her and say i think you miss understood i said lomo not homo and it really hurts my feelings that you are spreading that around.
2007-03-06 14:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To sort out every problem you have to take intiative otheriwse it will hurt you deep inside. My advice to you is that take abreak and think of all scenrio again and take actio on that and don't just play like that you cannot do anything. You can do everything IF you desire and you have will.
2007-03-06 14:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by maki" The time begins Now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is make up a name for that person who is calling your friend a homo or even yourself so you get the attention of your friends and onto someoone else .,....i wouldnt care if my friends were calling me anything cause i would know they are kidding around so get them to call you somethnng and make a little fun of your self =]
2007-03-06 14:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by gjsfjsfk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just explain to her that that's not what you said and your Otha friend isn't a homo and its offending her or you if shes a real friend she will understand and stop
2007-03-06 14:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by holden hunni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's a lomo?
2007-03-06 14:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋